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|HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship?
|HDIF when you can experience some of what I am feeling inside?
|What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when it comes down to the last minute to finish getting something done?
|HDIF when I make love but do not ask in a clear way?
|HDIF when I consider what I find most attractive about you?
|HDIF about being intimate with you in a non-sexual way?
|HDIF when you kiss me unexpectedly?
|What values of mine differ from my people? HDIFAT?
|As a child, was I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
|I am attracted to people who _____. HDIFAT?
|What effect does music have on me? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about paying the bills?
|HDIF at those times when I come on a little too strong with people?
|What place do fasting and sacrifice have in my spiritual life? HDIFAT?
|What part of your body is most sexually exciting to me? HDIFAT?
|Do I attempt great and small tasks with the same attitude? HDIFAT?
|What can we do to foster cooperative interaction in our family? HDIFAT?
|In what areas do I find I lack confidence in dialogue? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the decision to love being important to us?
|HDIF about us when we have saved to buy something special?
|HDIF about our celebration of Thanksgiving?
|HDIF when I sense Christ present among us?
|Do I now or have I ever kept a diary? HDIFAT?
|HDIF after I have exercised my right to vote?
|HDIF about my relationship with your family?
|How does my mask (personality style) disappoint, frustrate, or annoy others? HDIFAT?
|HDIF recalling my first confession?
|When was the last time I did not listen to you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you say, Do you always have to have the last word?
|Right now, what do I need most: love, belonging, self-worth, or autonomy? HDIFAT?
|Do I take myself for more than I am, or for less than I am worth? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about going to mass or church as a family?
|After a fight: This will help you better understand my reaction: _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our long-term financial situation?
|What can I offer you to better our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
|If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
|How would I feel if one of our children would want to become a minister? HDIFAT?
|If I died without a chance to see my people, what would I wish I could have told them? HDIFAT?
|There is so much to do before Christmas. HDIFAT?
|How can we create the atmosphere for intimacy in our relationship? HDIFAT?
|What place do priests / ministers have on our journey? HDIFAT?
|Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs?
|HDIF when we pray together as a family at mealtime?
|What struggles do I go through trying to write my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
|What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about God being a compassionate God?
|HDIF about being separated from you through death?
|Do my actions help or hinder Martin Luther King's dream of a society where all are equal? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about being ordained / taking vows every day?
|HDIF when you brag on me to your parents?
|HDIF when you seem to be rejecting my emotions / feelings?
|When you are trying to learn something new, do I try to teach you, or do I try to help you discover how to do it yourself? HDIFAT?
|What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the mask (personality style) I wear with God?
|What do I like about being alone? HDIFAT?
|Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the amount of money we pay in taxes?
|Does it take me a long time to get into action, or do I get into action quickly? HDIFAT?
|When I have done everything I can, am I satisfied to wait on the outcome? HDIFAT?
|When recently have I shared an emotion / feeling that I did not want to have? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I see God's hand in mine?
|HDIF when someone close to me dies?
|Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
|HDIF about visiting an arts and craft fair with you?
|What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
|Which one of us worries more about money? HDIFAT?
|Do I earn my salary? HDIFAT?
|What have I always wanted to try but never did? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about my inhibitions about sex?
|How am I different since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about challenging another couple to dialogue with us for _____ days?
|HDIF when I unexpectedly have a day off?
|Do I see the wonder of each moment I am given to live? HDIFAT?
|Why do (did) I choose to be baptized? HDIFAT?
|Do I work at improving myself every day? HDIFAT?
|Do I try to cram too much into one day? HDIFAT?
|If I could live anywhere, where would it be? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I decide to do things your way?
|HDIF when I send you a surprise greeting card?
|HDIF about learning how to fix a leaky faucet or running toilet?
|How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our romance? HDIFAT?
|Describe a time when I felt guilty. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about choosing something new over something familiar?
|What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you? HDIFAT?
|How can we use this fight to strengthen our marriage? HDIFAT?
|When recently did you do something that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about taking a short trip with you?
|What leads us to difficulties in our decision-making? HDIFAT?
|When I am at a party, HDIF about helping to get things going?
|Do I love you more for you, or for God? HDIFAT?
|Our sexual experience is an all-day thing. HDIFAT?
|Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about beginning a dialog challenge with another couple?
|Have we drawn closer, or drawn apart this week? HDIFAT?
|What do I want for myself this weekend? HDIFAT?
|What is the nicest thing you have done for me? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you say, Do you always have to have the last word?
|What do I have to be most thankful for? HDIFAT?
|What is the last good deed I did? HDIFAT?
|What do we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
|How have I helped myself in the effort to help others? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I invite you to go bike riding with me?
|How has my love for you changed since our wedding? HDIFAT?
|When was the last time I praised you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you excel at something I thought I was rather good at?
|HDIF when someone rains on my parade?
|HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
|Do I ever worry that you will leave me? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about my sense of humor, or lack of one?
|Am I more concerned with my outer or inner appearance? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about being unforgiven?
|How would I react if someone called me a person of real feeling? HDIFAT?
|We need medicine and the checkbook is low. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when our budget is tight?
|What dreams do I have for this year? Are they realistic? HDIFAT?
|HDIF at a large party?
|Am I an intellectual? HDIFAT?
|How does my attitude toward your mother affect us? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the holidays this year?
|HDIF when I have to shovel the snow?
|What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we have a garage sale?
|Do I see you through my heart or through my head? HDIFAT?
|What proof is there in my life that dialogue helps my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
|Have we been changed because of God's faith in our marriage? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about having company stay with us?
|I know there is a good chance we will make love tonight. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when God allows us to suffer?
|What is the most effective way to communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
|Do I measure my worth by what I own, or by those whose lives I have touched? HDIFAT?
|Who can I reach out to? HDIFAT?
|I think we should remove these rules from our relationship: _____. HDIFAT?
|Do we work well together? HDIFAT?
|How well do I communicate with God? HDIFAT?
|What helps me learn the most about you: dialoguing, or making love, or sharing our days, or quiet time together? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I try to be punctual for your sake?
|What obstacles do I allow to inhibit me from speaking freely? HDIFAT?
|How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we spend an evening alone together?
|HDIF when I am extremely tired?
|HDIF when I am avoiding sharing something with you?
|I would feel better about us if we could make these additional changes: _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about dialoguing on health?
|Our calendar is filled. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when one of our children excels and the others do not?
|HDIF about being praised or recognized in public?
|HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
|As a child, did I ever run away from home? HDIFAT?
|What expectations do I have of God? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about sharing my dreams with you?
|When did I make the decision to love you lately? HDIFAT?
|We stopped dialoguing altogether for a while. Why? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I let my heart rule my head? When I let my head rule my heart?
|HDIF when I look at my naked body?
|Does absence from you make my heart grow fonder for you? HDIFAT?
|After a fight: Would it have helped to take a time-out? HDIFAT?
|Do I ever put off doing things for fear of failure? HDIFAT?
|What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
|Do I have a quick or slow temper? HDIFAT?
|What can I do to build a better community? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when other couples think they do not need to dialogue?
|HDIF about reminding a friend to return something recently borrowed?
|HDIF about going out on a date together?
|HDIF when I complete some big, unusual task around the house?
|What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when things go wrong at work?
|What did I most look forward to today? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me?
|How do I express my anger? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our communication techniques?
|HDIF about this past workweek?
|Do I rise above my past, or do I remain controlled by my past? HDIFAT?
|In what areas do I trust you less? HDIFAT?
|Recently, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
|What positive actions will I take to change a pressure into a blessing? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about family secrets?
|HDIF about my hurried schedule?
|HDIF about celebrating our anniversaries?
|HDIF as the winning lottery numbers are being drawn?
|How have our past failures helped us to grow? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about taking a walk you in the snow? In the rain?
|HDIF when I am left out of your activities?
|Do I get enough rest? HDIFAT?
|Do I sit beside you when I have the chance? HDIFAT?
|What is the most important value I have? HDIFAT?
|What is special about us as a couple today? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you reject suggestions I have to offer?
|After a fight: What irrational behavior can I admit to now? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding our sexual relationship?
|HDIF when I think about the first car we ever owned?
|HDIF when I think you do not believe me?
|After a fight: What are the bad things about our fights? HDIFAT?
|Do we pray with our children? HDIFAT?
|Do we have time for things like lingering over a candlelight dinner at home? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the power of our prayer?
|What behavior of yours most lets me experience myself as a man / woman? HDIFAT?
|Do I over schedule my time? HDIFAT?
|What is one of the greatest moments of our marriage? HDIFAT?
|HDIF hearing you say you love me?
|What is the most significant effect of our experiencing the weekend or follow-up sessions? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt?
|HDIF about grocery shopping?
|Am I willing for _____ to see me as a little odd or eccentric? HDIFAT?
|HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
|HDIF when I go to bed knowing you will be home late?
|HDIF being around opinionated people?
|How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIFAT?
|Do not worry about your life and what you are to eat or wear. HDIFAT?
|What gaps do I think I fill in your life? HDIFAT?
|Are we, as a couple, being a sign of God's love to the world? HDIFAT?
|Do I stick up for _____ when others are ridiculing them? HDIFAT?
|Can I expose my innermost sexuality to you? HDIFAT?
|What can I do to share my strengths with other people? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we are swamped with responsibility?
|Do I consider my emotions / feelings in making decisions that affect you? HDIFAT?
|What part do our children play in our relationship? HDIFAT?
|Do I sometimes make jokes that leave a critical or unpleasant aftertaste? HDIFAT?
|In sex, I feel most inadequate about _____. HDIFAT?
|How do I love thee? HDIFAT?
|What person in my family has lived the longest? HDIFAT?
|If our house were on fire, what one object would I most want to save? HDIFAT?
|Is my image of God like my image of my father? HDIFAT?
|What topics are most likely to result in me picking a fight? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you stand up for me?
|HDIF when I realize you are only mine for today?
|Do I make the best out of bad situations? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about accepting you just as you are?
|HDIF when you say, I cannot do anything to please you?
|Did I dissect a frog in high school biology? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I am delayed because other people are not punctual?
|Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT?
|What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
|Do I use my time wisely? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when someone compliments you (but not me) on our family?
|How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you parents visit?
|What are the positive signs of growth I see in us? HDIFAT?
|Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
|Am I doing better accepting you as you are? HDIFAT?
|What do I need to thank God for that I have not? HDIFAT?
|The biggest misconception people have about me is _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I deny my mistakes?
|Do I ever try to hide my true emotions / feelings from you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you?
|A couple I would like to see experience the weekend is _____. HDIF about inviting them?
|We have the grace from God to heal each other. HDIFAT?
|In what areas are we equal partners in decision making? HDIFAT?
|HDIF telling you something I assume you are not going to like?
|You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF being with people who do not seem to have emotional ups and downs?
|Am I a quick learner or do you have to study something a lot to understand it? HDIFAT?
|Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT?
|Do people close to me know where I stand on most things? HDIFAT?
|HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the way I take care of my body?
|HDIF when you say, Please forgive me?
|How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT?
|An old friend surprises me with a phone call. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about where we are this year compared to last year at this time?
|Am I better looking than most of your friends? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we see the persons who first suggested we experience the weekend?
|HDIF when someone reaches out to me?
|My ideal lovemaking would be _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
|Do I fight to win, to prove myself right, or to address what is dysfunctional in our relationship? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when someone snaps their fingers to get my attention?
|HDIF about saving up for things and paying cash?
|Can I see God in our children? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about spending a romantic evening alone with you?
|We have a stake in other people's marriages and they in ours. HDIFAT?
|What values do we want our children to have about money? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you say, You are just like your father?
|Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
|What conditions do I put on my love for you? HDIFAT?
|What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I am accepted and cared for?
|What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
|How do I fail to listen to you when I am disillusioned? HDIFAT?
|What is my gift to God today? HDIFAT?
|Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT?
|Is Jesus in control of my future? HDIFAT?
|Have we shared old history from our childhood with each other? Why or why not? HDIFAT?
|I must be true to _____. Can I be true to this and still be with you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when my job separates us overnight?
|HDIF when you say, What is your problem?
|When have I not listened to you lately? HDIFAT?
|Knowing what I know now, would I still choose you as a partner? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I do not do what I say I will do?
|HDIF when I win an argument?
|HDIF about praying before dialogue?
|HDIF about your fringe benefits?
|We, as a family, are a little church. HDIFAT?
|What strengths do we bring to the Lord? HDIFAT?
|What is a goal I have involving us together? HDIFAT?
|Am I more likely to avoid the dentist or go on a regular basis? HDIFAT?
|Do we need to pray together more often? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about confronting bigoted people?
|HDIF when I see the first snow of the season?
|HDIF when I get up but let you sleep?
|HDIF about God having a stake in our marriage?
|Do I need to be easier on you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when someone else takes the lead?
|HDIF about religious statues?
|Have I ever gone to a social gathering wearing the wrong thing? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our friends who abuse drugs or alcohol?
|HDIF at family gatherings?
|Under stress, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about joining the Parent Teacher Association?
|What are my thoughts about us being special to Our Father? HDIFAT?
|What have I learned about my people recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
|What is one thing about my health that bothers me? HDIFAT?
|When you are more romantic than me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
|Can I enjoy my successes for a while, or do I have to move on to the next challenge? HDIFAT?
|Do we have enough relaxation in our life? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I visit you in the hospital?
|When people think about me, they probably remember me for my _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF realizing you might not come home tonight?
|Do I take without forgetting? HDIFAT?
|Am I becoming more disillusioned or less disillusioned about us? HDIFAT?
|When we disagree, will I keep pressing the issue or will I let it go? HDIFAT?
|I am most likely to criticize you about _____. HDIFAT?
|Do I judge our success by how many possessions we have? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I (wife) / you (husband) wear make-up?
|Do I sometimes try to control you instead of accepting you they way you are? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I think about our financial position?
|Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAT?
|What is my present attitude toward writing a dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
|If I could get away with it, would I break the rules? HDIFAT?
|What is our favorite Christmas memory? HDIFAT?
|You are my mirror. HDIFAT?
|When am I most likely to lie to my people? HDIFAT?
|When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in your life, HDIF about your past?
|What can make money a source of conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
|Do I accept God's will? HDIFAT?
|What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
|What are my thoughts when we decide to dialogue on death? HDIFAT?
|Love is patient, love is kind. How does this apply to our family? HDIFAT?
|Who is or was my hero? HDIFAT?
|Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
|What do I see in your life as life-draining? HDIFAT?
|What can I do to contribute to our family having a good time on vacation? HDIFAT?
|Have I ever lost money gambling? HDIFAT?
|Do I think our love has made a difference in the world? HDIFAT?
|Do I love my people beyond the confines of my church / parish / synagogue? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
|Intimacy is a challenge for us. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about Scripture dialogue?
|HDIF about how we share our possessions with others?
|HDIF about a hobby that keeps us separated much of the time?
|HDIF about being on time?
|Why is making love mostly a non-verbal experience for us? HDIFAT?
|Whom do I need to forgive? HDIFAT?
|Describe a time when I felt left out. HDIFAT?
|Is our involvement with Encounter / Retrouvaille done as a couple? HDIFAT?
|Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the boss?
|Who has left the biggest mark on my life? HDIFAT?
|Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT?
|How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
|When I let you make your own decisions, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about having regular medical and dental checkups?
|HDIF about our relationship with our priest or minister / pastor?
|How does change affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
|Have I remembered to thank God for everything the last year? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our current financial situation?
|Someone forgot to wipe the honey jar before putting it away. HDIFAT?
|Where do we look for help in our relationship? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we play a sport together?
|HDIF when I consider that we are growing in mutual knowledge?
|HDIF when we plan the budget?
|HDIF when I realize I have hurt you?
|In what ways can we prepare ourselves for eternity? HDIFAT?
|My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
|Do I think separate nights out is good for our relationship? HDIFAT?
|What joy did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
|What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAT?
|HDIF telling _____ about my problems?
|HDIF about your attempt to balance the checkbook?
|My favorite time with God is _____. HDIFAT?
|What power do I see in our prayer? HDIFAT?
|Where did you grow up? HDIFAT?
|What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
|Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
|Do I allow Jesus to be in control of my life? HDIFAT?
|How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from listening to you with my heart and HDIFAT?
|The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT?
|What do I think you most need from me today? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I see our couple love influencing other people around us?
|When was the last time I gave you flowers? HDIFAT?
|How have I used my mask (personality style) this week? HDIFAT?
|What mask (personality style) do I find most difficult to remove in our relationship? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you are too tired to respond to me?
|Describe a time when I felt depressed. HDIFAT?
|In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our upcoming vacation?
|Do I worry about hair loss? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our family vacation time?
|Do I have a willing heart? HDIFAT?
|What outfit do I like best on you? HDIFAT?
|When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____.
|HDIF when you help me laugh at myself? When I help you do the same?
|When, while experiencing the weekend or afterward, did I really begin to listen to you? HDIFAT?
|You are my sounding board. HDIFAT?
|Am I willing to open myself up other people besides you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when a new situation comes up that conflicts with my plans?
|HDIF when you show confidence in me?
|How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT?
|What does a family Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT?
|Do I give my relationship with God my full attention? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when people do little things to tease, annoy or insult me?
|How does my negative or positive self-image affect me being life-giving? HDIFAT?
|Husbands, love your wives as your own bodies. HDIFAT?
|Am I content just to wait when I have done all I can? HDIFAT?
|Are there any sensitive issues we tend not to talk about? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
|If someone close to me were to die, what would I most need from you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about payday?
|What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
|Do I love my people more for them, or for God? HDIFAT?
|What was my strongest emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
|Do I encourage or discourage myself from expressing my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when someone lies to me?
|Do we still sit next to each other? HDIFAT?
|Do I think it is important to go to church every week? HDIFAT?
|I tell a joke and no one laughs. HDIFAT?
|Can I go one whole day without criticizing anyone or anything? HDIFAT?
|How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT?
|This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAT?
|How have in-laws contributed a positive change in our family? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when you believe the rumors instead of me?
|HDIF about facing the bills when there are too many?
|Is privacy an issue in our marriage? HDIFAT?
|Have I made peace with God? HDIFAT?
|Where would I most like to spend this Christmas? HDIFAT?
|HDIF looking through a photo album or scrapbook?
|Do I ever take unfair advantage of our love? HDIFAT?
|Am I satisfied with my life? What would I change? What would I not change? HDIFAT?
|How are we living God's plan and what can I do to improve it? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about telling jokes?
|Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT?
|When I look back over the holidays, what was the greatest gift I received? HDIFAT?
|How do I see you as a giving person? HDIFAT?
|What is the most difficult situation facing us as a couple right now? HDIFAT?
|What do I need to hear from you that would allow me to be more open? HDIFAT?
|Is there anything you are doing by yourself that I would like to be involved in? HDIFAT?
|What would I change about the way I was raised? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about spending time alone, by myself?
|After a fight: What is my favorite weapon when I do not fight fair with you? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about criticism? Does it keep me focused and innovative?
|After a fight: What did I do to provoke you? HDIFAT?
|How can we put more romance in our lives? HDIFAT?
|How strong is my need for you to love me? HDIFAT?
|We are going to a picnic. HDIFAT?
|What is my greatest fear about war? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the children having a savings account?
|What do I most depend upon you for? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the stake we have in other people's marriages?
|HDIF when you say no to me?
|What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
|What scares me? HDIFAT?
|What aspect of our lovemaking do I enjoy the most? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about _____'s visit?
|Are we as close to each other as we were just after we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
|As our marriage grows, so does the Church. HDIFAT?
|How do I deal with conceit when I succeed at something? HDIFAT?
|What do I remember most about the way we spent our first anniversary? HDIFAT?
|We are the church 7 days a week, not only on Sunday. HDIFAT?
|HDIF being around people who have a compulsive need to please other people?
|What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
|HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion?
|What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT?
|Am I asking you to make an unacceptable compromise? HDIFAT?
|How do I tell you I would like to make love? HDIFAT?
|Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT?
|There is no morality to consenting, loving sex. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when we see something we want but cannot afford?
|HDIF thinking about kissing you at midnight New Year's Eve?
|HDIF when we do not talk after an argument?
|What do I do that demonstrates my faith? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about our family traditions or the lack of them?
|HDIF about the atmosphere in our home right now?
|What would it be like for you if I died first? HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the Lord when I sin or fail to measure up?
|Am I experiencing any sadness or hurt over being injured? HDIFAT?
|Do I ever challenge myself to do something I have never done before? HDIFAT?
|What illness do you fear most for yourself? HDIFAT?
|What friends help us see our goodness? HDIFAT?
|My greatest distraction while listening to you is _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF about the last time we snuggled together?
|After God forgives me, why cannot I forgive myself? HDIFAT?
|HDIF when I stay within my limits, undertaking only as much as I can handle?
|What joy or pleasure do I receive when we pray together? HDIFAT?
|After a fight: Did one of us try to make the other feel guilty? Did it work? HDIFAT?
|How can I be more tender? HDIFAT?
|The work I am doing now is _____. HDIFAT?
|HDIF when our dialogue is interrupted?