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| HDIF about being the first to forgive? |
| Do I like our home the way it is? HDIFAT? |
| What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having an egg hunt for the kids? |
| What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT? |
| I am most happy when _____. HDIFAT? |
| What are my visions and hopes for tomorrow? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving a month's worth of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| Is St. Valentine's Day special to me or just another day? HDIFAT? |
| What are my longings for me and my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our level of indebtedness? |
| HDIF when someone drops in unexpectedly? |
| What do I want to change most in you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you make unreasonable demands on me? |
| I am in a life-long search for more _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my sexuality? |
| HDIF when I have to mind my words to keep you from getting upset? |
| HDIF when I am asked to cut back or do without? |
| Am I a good mixer or am I usually quiet and reserved? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to hide my sins? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our loved ones refuse to do anything to improve their marriage? |
| HDIF about a second honeymoon? |
| What quality of yours do I experience when I am away from you? HDIFAT? |
| What difference does the Eucharistic celebration make in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What do I want most from you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I need to relax but do not? |
| What is my vision of the Church? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt sympathetic. HDIFAT? |
| What do I see as our greatest asset as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What would be my idea of a good family outing? HDIFAT? |
| How much money would we need to retire on? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for every area of my life? |
| What is my favorite way of lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we meet a couple who, like us, has experienced the weekend and follow-up? |
| Only _____ days until Christmas. Is my heart ready? HDIFAT? |
| Do I get along with my parents? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever take unfair advantage of our love? HDIFAT? |
| What am I most thankful for on this holiday? HDIFAT? |
| I try NOT to be seen as _____ (weak, dumb, frivolous, impractical). HDIFAT? |
| If we had to wait 5 years to receive our wedding license, would we still have married? HDIFAT? |
| Can I really be myself with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say YES but mean NO? |
| How can we create the atmosphere for intimacy in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I am being open to you, I am also being open to God. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider my accomplishments? |
| What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am being obsessive? |
| HDIF about my habits hurting our relationship? |
| Can people tell we love each other when they see us? HDIFAT? |
| What do I want most for our family this Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have difficulty remembering someone's name? |
| HDIF about using the media to proclaim the Good News? |
| God is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and full of love. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we pray the rosary? |
| How can I make myself a better treasure for God? HDIFAT? |
| How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from listening to you with my heart and HDIFAT? |
| Do I see myself more in terms of what I do, or more in terms of what I am? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about _____, the kindest person you have ever known? |
| HDIF knowing we are not promised a tomorrow? |
| How has our dialogue helped us grow closer to each other? HDIFAT? |
| How does my pride get in the way of my relationship with my people? HDIFAT? |
| What grudges do I hold regarding you? HDIFAT? |
| What I think you love most about me is _____. HDIFAT? |
| In sex, I feel most inadequate about _____. HDIFAT? |
| Are my needs to love and be loved being met? HDIFAT? |
| What methods do I find most difficult to use in describing my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT? |
| Forgive us our sins as we forgive other people. When I pray this, HDIF? |
| If I did not need money, what would I be doing today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people bore me with their problems? |
| Do I stick up for _____ when others are ridiculing them? HDIFAT? |
| What are some of the most tranquil times we spend together? HDIFAT? |
| Do our children know what Christmas means? HDIFAT? |
| In what way does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I take you for granted? |
| In what specific ways am I hopeful for the world? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being intimate with you in a non-sexual way? |
| HDIF about the level of lust in our marriage? |
| Have I ever lost sight of my dreams or goals? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are swamped with responsibility? |
| HDIF about _____, my favorite cousin? |
| HDIF when I call you by your pet name? |
| HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women? |
| After a fight: I fight with you because _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about our spirituality (being lovers)? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you working too many hours? |
| When misfortune comes, do I laugh it off, wonder why, or make the best of it? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone questions my faith? |
| Do our children spend enough time doing their homework? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF inviting couples like us into Encounter / Retrouvaille? |
| What changes have I made during the follow-up period? HDIFAT? |
| How well am I able to adjust to new ways of doing things? HDIFAT? |
| When I think about all those who made our Encounter / Retrouvaille program possible, I feel _____ |
| We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about doing Scripture Dialogue? |
| HDIF when I am an object of someone's joke or ridicule? |
| Do we need to find a new way to resolve any of our problems? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am telling you about my successes? |
| Do I trust my people as much today as I did yesterday? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I play cards to win? When I play just to be sociable? |
| HDIF about family secrets? |
| I think we should remove these rules from our relationship: _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear about the sins of priests or ministers in the news? |
| How would I like you to romance me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you seem indifferent to me? |
| An October fest is planned. HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt pessimistic. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about baby-sitters? |
| The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about birthday parties and presents? |
| What do I need to do to improve my appearance? HDIFAT? |
| Jesus will never give us more conflict than we can manage. HDIFAT? |
| Do I see us as financially responsible? HDIFAT? |
| Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT? |
| Have I made peace with God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am? |
| What particular event today caused me the most enjoyment? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am a source of inspiration to you? |
| Do I give money or time willingly or grudgingly? HDIFAT? |
| When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What do I think you are going through right now? HDIFAT? |
| Recently, when have I felt the most alone? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I ask you to forgive me? HDIFAT? |
| What regrets do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Did one of us try to make the other feel guilty? Did it work? HDIFAT? |
| When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT? |
| Are we keeping our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I make you happy? |
| For our growth, we need God to be part of our marriage. HDIFAT? |
| In an average week, what activities work to enhance our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When recently has my mask (personality style) interfered in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What do I remember about our wedding? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways do I feel weak? HDIFAT? |
| Do I take myself for more than I am, or for less than I am worth? HDIFAT? |
| If God is for us, who can be against us? HDIFAT? |
| Which is harder for me to do, give without remembering, or take without forgetting? HDIFAT? |
| What can we do for the poor, the homeless and the lonely? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family? |
| How specifically can we as a couple / priest be salt and light? HDIFAT? |
| What can we do to economize this Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to us constructive or destructive criticism? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us when I hear our favorite song? |
| HDIF when I see thanks shining in your eyes? |
| HDIF about your relationship with our children? |
| HDIF about carrying an organ donor card? |
| HDIF when we dance in the livingroom? |
| What effect does sex with you have on me? HDIFAT? |
| What financial needs do I see coming between us? HDIFAT? |
| Do I need to learn how to manage money better? HDIFAT? |
| Do I like for people to drop in on us? HDIF when it happens? |
| HDIF when someone is making fun of me? |
| Jesus came to bring us new life. HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe my life, or parts of it, are predestined? HDIFAT? |
| Am I willing to work hard to make my relationship with my people a success? HDIFAT? |
| What is special about us as a couple today? HDIFAT? |
| Who is or was my hero? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about planning for our future? |
| HDIF about Jesus' resurrection? |
| HDIF about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can experience the weekend? |
| Am I trying too hard to change you? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept responsibility when it is put upon me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our family activities? |
| HDIF when plans do not work out? |
| How does your relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT? |
| If I could travel in time, I would _____. HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever stolen anything? HDIFAT? |
| How do I handle defeat? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you give me love taps? |
| I am God's hands and feet. HDIFAT? |
| When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I delay acting on a good idea until it is too late? |
| HDIF about us being needed by others? |
| When we make love, I feel _____. |
| Do I do all that I can to seek the best in my people? HDIFAT? |
| Life is beautiful when shared with you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning to accept you as you are? |
| What do I think about my ability to accept your loving me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF at a large party? |
| HDIF when I buy you flowers? |
| HDIF when other people look me in the eye? |
| What do I see in your life as life-draining? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who are hypersensitive? |
| What can we do to promote peace? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I win at cards? When you win? |
| Marriage should be full of the joy that God desires for us. HDIFAT? |
| What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple? |
| What can we do be become closer as a family? HDIFAT? |
| Is sex pretty much all or nothing for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF on those occasions when I discipline our children? |
| How do I want you to see me? Is this the way I want other people to see me too? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my work? |
| Do I believe prayers are answered? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, what was I like? HDIF about the person I used to be? |
| Describe a time when I felt sheepish. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we plan something together? |
| Am I looking forward to tomorrow, living in the past, or simply living today? HDIFAT? |
| Am I willing to give up my dreams to make your dreams come true? HDIFAT? |
| What would be the most unlucky thing that could happen to me today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see a new baby? |
| Do I ever put off doing things to avoid discomfort? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am away from my people? |
| HDIF when you are annoyed with me? |
| When I consider our past times together, do I have a better memory for the positive aspects or for the negative aspects? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have a magic formula for keeping our marriage fresh and alive? HDIFAT? |
| What talent or quality do I wish I had that I do not? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you kiss me in front of other people? |
| What satisfaction do I take in little successes? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider that pain and disappointment are just part of life? |
| HDIF immediately after I experienced the weekend? |
| Do I try to fix your problems, or just listen and accept how you feel about them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people talk negatively about me? |
| HDIF about adopting a child? |
| HDIF when you say no to one of my requests? |
| How is our relationship affected when we strive to love unconditionally? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite memory of a Christmas past? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge myself guilty? |
| HDIF being around people who never laugh? Who laugh easily? |
| HDIF when I am confronted with, or think of, that which I fear most? |
| HDIF when we talk about dealing with a crisis? |
| Do I put conditions on my love for you? HDIFAT? |
| What conditions do I put on my love of God? HDIFAT? |
| When things bother me, can I tune them out? HDIFAT? |
| Am I open to new life? HDIFAT? |
| Do we let our light shine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone plays a practical joke on me? |
| HDIF when you are sick or hurt? |
| If I died without a chance to see my people, what would I wish I could have told them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about Anthrax? |
| How can I help you express your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| Hurt is an inevitable part of a close relationship. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when your parents visit? |
| How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a quick learner or do you have to study something a lot to understand it? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever feel used by my people? What is this emotion / feeling like? |
| What is our basic way of dealing with marital conflict? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we read our letters and then cannot think of much to say? |
| HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage? |
| Do I ever get so involved with my projects that I neglect other people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I regularly do things I do not want to do? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I lose control over a situation? |
| HDIF when a couple we have invited comes home from experiencing the weekend and thanks us? |
| How do I approach each new day with you and with God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about attending a play with you? |
| How long would I like to live? HDIFAT? |
| How can we bring new life to someone else, as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| We are invited to a wedding of another faith expression. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I look at our children sleeping? |
| Describe a time when I felt angry. |
| Describe a time when I felt aggressive. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we criticize each other? |
| What outfit do I like best on you? HDIFAT? |
| When we disagree, how can we do it more lovingly? HDIFAT? |
| What example do I imitate that is a not so good an example? HDIFAT? |
| Is my image of God like my image of my father? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I able to see your side? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when my gift of help, time, friendship, etc is refused? |
| Have my eyes been open to seeing the Lord's miracles around me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF just before I tell you something you will not like to hear? |
| What fear to I keep from you? HDIFAT? |
| When you touch me tenderly, without sex as a goal, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to make the world a better place? HDIFAT? |
| What one quality do I look for most in a friend? HDIFAT? |
| In what specific ways do I see us responding to God's call to Unity? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I laughed until I cried? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when my people only share superficial things with me? |
| In what areas do I feel vulnerable to you? HDIFAT? |
| In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT? |
| Where do we go to be lifted up as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What can our family do to increase religious vocations in our parish? HDIFAT? |
| How sexy am I? How sexy are you? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of adjustments have I made since we married? HDIFAT? |
| Do I feel in control of my time? HDIFAT? |
| What does decision mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| What things should I make time for? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever keep quiet because I do not know what to say? HDIFAT? |
| Do I prefer to write in pen or pencil? HDIFAT? |
| Our dialogue can be a way we say yes to each other. HDIFAT? |
| If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home? HDIFAT? |
| What goals do I have that I have not shared with you yet? HDIFAT? |
| I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do we delight in each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do I experience God's love in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening? |
| HDIF about marriage being a lifetime commitment? |
| What is my favorite form of recreation? HDIFAT? |
| What good effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT? |
| What emotion / feeling did I have today that I most want to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about reminding a friend to return something borrowed long ago? |
| Do I give my relationship with my people my full attention? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself successful? HDIFAT? |
| What can we do to enrich our prayer life this Lent? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when one of my people is sick? |
| HDIF when I consider that you can / cannot do CPR? |
| Do I believe in my / our Sacrament when I am down? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children ask me to knock before entering their rooms? |
| HDIF about newborns in our family? |
| HDIF when I am blamed for something that is my fault? |
| What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| Who am I a hero to? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to control or hide my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have difficulty letting go of my parenting role now that our children are no longer at home? HDIFAT? |
| What is my greatest fear about our children's future? HDIFAT? |
| What makes our house a home? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about buying a convertible for us to enjoy together? |
| How are we teaching our children about sexuality? HDIFAT? |
| What helps me learn the most about you: dialoguing, or making love, or sharing our days, or quiet time together? HDIFAT? |
| You are my sweetheart because _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you? |
| Where do I place my people on my list of priorities? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when something goes wrong? |
| What non-verbal expression, gesture or behavior helps me understand how you feel? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I generally have an attitude of superiority? HDIFAT? |
| What is my impossible dream for us? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most want for Christmas this year? HDIFAT? |
| Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you win an argument? |
| What do I think is keeping us out of romance right now? HDIFAT? |
| One thing that brings me joy in our relationship is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try holding my temper? |
| HDIF when I have to deal with my past? |
| HDIF when I have done something to make you happy? |
| Do I expect to have a happy New Year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am get useless unsolicited advice from others? |
| HDIF about buying raffle tickets to help with fund-raisers? |
| How are we supporting couples after the follow-up period ends? HDIFAT? |
| It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving. HDIFAT? |
| Do I apply Gospel values to my job or career? HDIFAT? |
| What was our closest moment as a couple this year? HDIFAT? |
| What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT? |
| What about you am I grateful for today? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I find peace when things are chaotic? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day? |
| HDIF about _____'s visit? |
| Is our home in a good state of repair? HDIFAT? |
| What mask (personality style) am I wearing when I am avoiding you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you criticize me in front of other people? |
| What expectations do I have of your job? Are they being met? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I spend money on gifts? |
| HDIF when you initiate sex? |
| What is the biggest change our family or friends have seen in us since we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about spending more time together as a family? |
| How have we accepted Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear myself say things my mother or father said? |
| HDIF when you are away and I miss you? |
| Whom have I failed to love today? HDIFAT? |
| When I am frustrated, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| What is my wildest dream for us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the division of decision-making between us? |
| HDIF when you reach out to touch me? |
| What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see as my people's uniqueness? HDIFAT? |
| What conditions do I sometimes place on you to be loved by me? HDIFAT? |
| One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT? |
| How do I face the world each morning? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are wheeled off to surgery? |
| HDIF when our children say, I love you? |
| Mary is the mother of our Lord. HDIFAT? |
| When I am caught in an embarrassing spot, I usually _____. HDIFAT? |
| Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT? |
| What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God sending His son to be a human presence in the world? |
| HDIF about traveling on the train? |
| HDIF telling you something I know you do not want to hear? |
| HDIF when I am buying you a gift? |
| Am I strong enough to admit to my people when I make a mistake? HDIFAT? |
| What was my strongest emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I reach out to touch you? |
| HDIF about the changes in my physical appearance (weight, age)? |
| HDIF after we have had a fight? |
| HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it? |
| HDIF about giving people a second chance? A third chance? A fourth chance? |
| HDIF when you try to mold me into someone else? |
| HDIF about Washington politics? |
| HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly? |
| HDIF when I see your features in our child? |
| HDIF when I give you a sincere compliment? |
| What do I like best and least about our family vacations? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone criticizes me? |
| HDIF when you have an attitude I cannot accept? |
| How do we show our respect for each other in front of others? HDIFAT? |
| Your sexiest outfit is _____. HDIFAT? |
| How is our day when we are not sexually involved with each other? HDIFAT? |
| How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our marriage influences other people? |
| If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT? |
| Is there anything I did this week that I regret? HDIFAT? |
| The Father knows me personally and has a plan for my life. HDIFAT? |
| When I am pressured by you, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT? |
| How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| Are there fireworks in our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you come home late? |
| What is the atmosphere at our dinner table? HDIFAT? |
| What emotions / feelings have I kept hidden from you lately? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a teacher does not like my child? |
| What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our daughter being a priest / pastor / nun? |
| HDIF when I initiate our lovemaking? |
| Do I smoke? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we get together with family? |
| Knowing the choice is ours to continue what the weekend started, HDIF? |
| What memory of our courting days is most alive today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the appearance of my teeth? |
| When making an important decision, HDIF about ignoring my emotions / feelings? |
| What expectations do I have of your family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to wait all day for a delivery? |
| After God forgives me, why cannot I forgive myself? HDIFAT? |
| Can I ride a skateboard? A unicycle? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being unconditionally loved by God? |
| What can I do to improve my sense of humor? HDIFAT? |
| Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when something works out exactly as I planned? |
| HDIF when you are hungry for sex? |
| Are we living God's plan in our marriage or our own plan? HDIFAT? |
| What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT? |
| When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in your life, HDIF about your past? |
| What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT? |
| How do I live out the passion for our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Share a memory from your past that you cherish. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you screw up my plans? |
| HDIF when you hold my hand in public? |
| HDIF when I hold you as you cry yourself to sleep? |
| HDIF when I am around positive people? |
| HDIF about being a godparent? |
| HDIF about my spiritual growth this Easter? |
| What can I do to help me understand you better? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the attitudes and behaviors of a happy person? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say no to lovemaking? |
| Do I live out my convictions? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about shopping in general? |
| How do I like you to touch me? HDIF when you touch me that way? |
| After a fight: Did I say things just for effect? HDIFAT? |
| What anniversaries do I celebrate? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I run out of time and there is much left to do? |
| Do I consider myself a good listener? HDIFAT? |
| What decisions can I make to improve our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Is our dinner hour a pleasant time? HDIFAT? |
| Do I follow or lead in our couple prayer? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you? |
| Is my dialogue a real letter or does it just answer the question? HDIFAT? |
| I really wish I had started _____ earlier in life. HDIFAT? |
| In what aspect of my relationship with God have I grown the most? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our plans are changed? |
| After a fight: What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with you? HDIFAT? |
| My most unusual ability or talent is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Are we as close to each other as we were just after we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| Do I act younger or older than I am? HDIFAT? |
| God gave us two ears and one mouth. Do I listen twice as much as I speak? HDIFAT? |
| How does the busy-ness of our lives affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it? |
| Do I daydream a lot? HDIFAT? |
| Do I rise above my past, or do I remain controlled by my past? HDIFAT? |
| What did I first long for immediately after we were married? HDIFAT? |
| When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT? |
| What would other people say is my worst habit? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I took responsibility for my poor self-worth? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our church's rituals? |
| HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear? |
| Have I ever flunked a class or big test? HDIFAT? |
| How does my attitude toward your father affect us? HDIFAT? |
| Is our marriage bed sacred? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing my troubles with you? |
| What is our best quality as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| How has our non-verbal dialogue improved during the follow-up period? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT? |
| How did my family handle the subject of death or death itself? HDIFAT? |
| What needs of yours do I see me being able to help with? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about myself when I do well? |
| Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have a winning attitude even when I am losing? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making and keeping New Year's resolutions? |
| When was the last time I laughed at myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I find myself talking too much? When other people talk too much? |
| Do I ever let the day end without complimenting you on something? HDIFAT? |
| Our sexual intimacy is prayer. HDIFAT? |
| Do I have all my real teeth? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my own aging? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of childhood did I have? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live? |
| Am I ready for the Christmas holidays? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about facing the bills when there are too many? |
| How did it happen that we first met? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite memory of our courtship? HDIFAT? |
| What music do I like to listen to when we make love? HDIFAT? |
| There is so much to do before Christmas. HDIFAT? |
| Has my self-image improved because of our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being neat or tidy? |
| What is the most impulsive thing I ever did? HDIFAT? |
| Do I sometimes write something different from what I feel in order to protect you or myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about Bloom where you are planted? |
| What are my thoughts when I hear God does not make junk? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time? |
| HDIF approaching Christ as a couple? |
| HDIF when someone misunderstands me? |
| Does the element of time cause me stress? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the whole family sings together? |
| HDIF when we spend an afternoon looking at scrapbooks? |
| What expectations of mine were not met this last week? HDIFAT? |