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| I find it difficult to listen to my people when _____. HDIFAT? |
| How do we lovingly pass on our family traditions? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I want something we cannot afford? |
| HDIF about our children's manners? |
| Do we avoid a particular member of our parish or church community? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving to an Angel Tree or other project for needy people? |
| When I think of the friends in our life, I feel _____. |
| If we ever stopped dialoguing for a while, why did we? HDIFAT? |
| I feel trapped because _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I think there is to be thankful for this year? HDIFAT? |
| I see myself as I was at 10 years old. What do I see? HDIFAT? |
| What is my reaction to seeing couples we know and love working on their relationships? HDIFAT? |
| Would I change jobs / careers for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I now or have I ever kept a diary? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we dance in the livingroom? |
| What is my favorite memory of my grandparents? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God being a compassionate God? |
| How patient am I with myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you surprise me with something nice? |
| HDIF when I have the urge to call you during the day, but do not? |
| HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents? |
| HDIF about receiving massages? |
| As a child, did I have a book that I read over and over? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about planning for a romantic time together? |
| What kind of person would I like to become? HDIFAT? |
| You cannot hold on to another person out of fear of loss. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I stay within my limits, undertaking only as much as I can handle? |
| If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIFAT? |
| When do I close my heart to my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about turning off the TV at dinnertime? |
| HDIF when I am forced to make a decision sooner than I would like? |
| Am I thick-skinned or thin-skinned? HDIFAT? |
| Why did I become ordained / take up my ministry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having to do work that does not harmonize with my values? |
| HDIF about the phrase, Dialogue is my gift of myself to you? |
| What expectations do I have of the holidays? HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not being met? HDIFAT? |
| When I look at you today, do I see you as my bride / groom? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I discover the assumptions I made about you are not true? |
| HDIF when you say, Why do you never listen to me? |
| HDIF when I have difficulty getting started on an important task? |
| Lately, have I accepted people's emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT? |
| How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our romance? HDIFAT? |
| The time I feel most alive is _____. HDIFAT? |
| What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT? |
| How can our kisses be more meaningful? HDIFAT? |
| Which of my strengths do I need to develop? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite family tradition? HDIFAT? |
| Do I hold grudges? HDIFAT? |
| How do I spend the first hour of my day? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: HDIF when we argue? |
| What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT? |
| My greatest hurt in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I sometimes miss out because I take too long to make a decision? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to fix your problems, or just listen and accept how you feel about them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am the avoider and you are the seeker? |
| HDIF about making big financial decisions without you? |
| HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll? |
| HDIF when I am asked to love, to give, or to forgive but will receive nothing in return? |
| HDIF when I receive a special favor? |
| Our children will be grown and gone too soon. HDIFAT? |
| What mask (personality style) do I find most difficult to remove in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see Christmas displays in October? |
| How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT? |
| What has kept me from being completely honest before now? HDIFAT? |
| Why have we not kept dialoguing? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start? |
| HDIF about sharing my emotions / feelings from the past? |
| How seriously do I take my social obligations? HDIFAT? |
| Do I remember to pray when things are going well? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF on those occasions when I think I deserve private time? |
| What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT? |
| In what specific way have I brightened your day today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to understand what is bothering me? |
| What kind of things frustrate me? HDIFAT? |
| How is God's love being reflected to other people through our love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being neat or tidy? |
| HDIF about being creative in our romance? |
| HDIF sharing the holidays with you? |
| How do we show our love for each other? HDIFAT? |
| If I died with no chance to talk to you, what would I regret not saying? HDIFAT? |
| Do I let you reveal yourself? HDIFAT? |
| Do I give more than I receive, or receive more than I give? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear myself say things my mother or father said? |
| Jesus asks, How are you living your life for me? |
| You can make me laugh when I see little to laugh about. HDIFAT? |
| I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning a new dance step with you? |
| HDIF when we play a sport together? |
| Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you respond to my requests on your own time? |
| HDIF about sending Christmas cards? |
| Do I expect security from our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Is it easy for us to agree on decisions? HDIFAT? |
| Do I experience satisfaction in my personal life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are separate from each other? |
| How do I behave when I am asked to do something I do not want to do? HDIFAT? |
| Could any of my actions today, either purposely or unintentionally, have hurt someone else? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What irrational behavior can I admit to now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about one of our children being called to religion life? |
| After a fight: What starts our fights? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways do I believe I am taken for granted? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you insult or belittle one of my ideas? |
| HDIF watching our children participate in sports? |
| HDIF about LK 16:9? |
| If I could be remembered either as having an agile mind or a caring heart, which would it be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about what we as a couple have to offer other people? |
| How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT? |
| We stopped dialoguing altogether for a while. Why? HDIFAT? |
| Do I, like Thomas, question the way of the Lord? HDIFAT? |
| How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT? |
| What are my expectations about our sexual roles? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you? |
| HDIF about the values our children are choosing? |
| I forgot to buy you a card on this special occasion. HDIFAT? |
| What specifically do you do to me during sex that I enjoy most? HDIFAT? |
| What do I least want to reveal to you today about myself? HDIFAT? |
| How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Did I view marriage as an escape from something? HDIFAT? |
| Are my problems too complicated or unusual for most people to understand? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I trust you more? HDIFAT? |
| What are my resolutions for this year? HDIFAT? |
| How do I think other people see us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do next week to help people experience more of God's love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for my attitude, good or bad? |
| HDIF about taking a dream vacation? |
| Describe what love means to you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your travel schedule? |
| Am I ever suspicious when you are especially nice? HDIFAT? |
| Am I open to new life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it? |
| HDIF when you give me your undivided attention? |
| What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT? |
| What is it about you that arouses me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF right now? |
| HDIF confessing my sins aloud? |
| Am I really accepting of you or do I feel the need to change you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the expectations my family has for us? |
| Do my expectations of our children limit my love for them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about wearing a cowboy hat? |
| Do I search for my people's faults like there is a bounty offered? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I laughed? HDIFAT? |
| I have seniority at work. HDIFAT? |
| How do our possessions affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to listen to you better? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I thanked my mother for being my mom? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when one of our children says, I love you? |
| What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| How can I communicate better with our children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we disagree? |
| HDIF when you kiss me? |
| When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in your life, HDIF about your past? |
| HDIF about the atmosphere in our home right now? |
| HDIF when our different interests separate us? |
| If this were our last Christmas, how would I like to spend it? HDIFAT? |
| When has expressing emotion / feeling strengthened our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What can we do to foster cooperative interaction in our family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we pray with our children and hold hands? |
| HDIF when I am not able to handle the pressures in my life? |
| Do I spend time alone when I need to be alone? HDIFAT? |
| Do I think our love has made a difference in the world? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your ambitions, whether great or small? |
| What can we do be become closer as a family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way we use our spare time? |
| When I am frustrated, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think about us marrying each other each day? |
| What have I given away? HDIFAT? |
| With myself, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT? |
| What do I enjoy reading? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more concerned with my outer or inner appearance? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Would it have helped to take a time-out? HDIFAT? |
| I believe I have failed as _____. HDIFAT? |
| What were my emotions / feelings on Friday night as we began to experience the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing that death is inevitable? |
| HDIF when I notice our children taking on some of my characteristics? |
| HDIF about being a childless family? |
| Do I make the absolute best of what God gives me to work with? HDIFAT? |
| Are we talkers or non-talkers? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am running errands? |
| Do I take my friends for granted? HDIFAT? |
| How has dialogue helped me meet my need for self-worth? HDIFAT? |
| What hope do I have that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our activities in the marriage program? |
| Someone offers me a breath mint. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having an Encounter / Retrouvaille information night in our home? |
| HDIF about singing praise to God? |
| Have I turned our children over to God's care? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when friends offer to help? |
| HDIF recalling our honeymoon? |
| HDIF when I do something that I think pleases God? |
| How do I think the world will end? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about forgiveness? |
| HDIF when I see you across the room? |
| HDIF when our friends let us down? |
| HDIF when I have to say, I need help? |
| HDIF about the romance, or the lack of it, in our relationship? |
| Do I ever feel God present and working in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| When I am being open to you, I am also being open to God. HDIFAT? |
| What experience has most affected our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Do I feel in control of my time? HDIFAT? |
| Do I view recreation as re-creation? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever won money gambling? HDIFAT? |
| What could you do to increase my sexual anticipation? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our spending on gifts? |
| HDIF reading your favorite book? |
| What emotion / feeling of mine is most likely to result in behaviors that build up my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| What do we have to be thankful for? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our first year of marriage? |
| How do I respond to repeated failure? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we go several days without dialogue? |
| What do I expect of God? HDIFAT? |
| Can I call you a friend as well as a lover? HDIFAT? |
| What does the Fourth of July make me thankful for? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are driving and I am a passenger? |
| HDIF when you give me a mushy card? |
| What would I like you to do for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get up at night when the baby cries? |
| How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family? |
| HDIF when we participate in a sport? |
| What are my goals for _____? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I put a child in time-out? |
| HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it? |
| What are my people's best qualities? HDIFAT? |
| What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT? |
| When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____. |
| What would my profession be if money were no object? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to look my best for you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I make you happy? |
| HDIF about dialoguing on health? |
| Which of our possessions enhance our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What about my relationship with my people can be improved? HDIFAT? |
| One of my big successes in life is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you seem to be rejecting my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF about my fringe benefits? |
| In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I experiencing any remorse or guilt for hurting someone else? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about discussing our sexual relationship? |
| HDIF about trying to maintain a cordial relationship with someone I dislike? |
| HDIF about _____, my favorite aunt? |
| After a fight: What did I compromise to make peace? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you touch me? |
| HDIF when I have the opportunity to be alone, to enjoy some solitude? |
| Have I been critical or accepting of you this week? HDIFAT? |
| What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when God allows other people to suffer? |
| HDIF when other people forget my birthday? |
| What causes the most friction between my people and me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making the decision to love you? |
| HDIF when you are late and I have to wait for you? |
| Have I had any unusual dreams at night? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my own aging? HDIFAT? |
| We have an opportunity to move. HDIFAT? |
| Do I see myself the same way God sees me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I do a lot for other people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am alone? |
| After a fight: What issues still persist? HDIFAT? |
| In what way have I changed recently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go? |
| Do I prefer country or city living? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building? |
| Beside yours, what friendship has meant the most to me this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us? |
| Did we suffer from Post Wedding Blues? HDIFAT? |
| Am I still growing and learning? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when, non-verbally, you say yes to lovemaking? |
| When have I felt the most loved this year? HDIFAT? |
| How does our ethnic background affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Sometimes I want to escape and be by myself. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you tell me I am sexy? |
| If I had my life to start again, what would I change? HDIFAT? |
| What are your family's expectations of us? HDIFAT? |
| Where was I born? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you change the subject before I am finished? |
| What is my most vivid memory of our honeymoon? HDIFAT? |
| How do I respond to the Lord's call? HDIFAT? |
| How does dialoguing on our emotions / feelings help us discover our needs? HDIFAT? |
| How easy is it for me to trust others? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we get together with family? |
| Have I brought healing to you recently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to compromise my integrity? |
| Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I leave our children with a baby-sitter? |
| HDIF about the way we spent last weekend? |
| HDIF about Catholics for Choice? |
| HDIF when a couple says yes, they want or need to experience the weekend? |
| What are my attitudes about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people with bad manners? |
| Today we had the opportunity to make our relationship stronger. Did we? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am unloving? |
| HDIF about joining the Parent Teacher Association? |
| How well do I think my people trust me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I reflect on what a gift you are to me? |
| HDIF immediately after we make love? |
| HDIF about being a citizen of this country? |
| HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings? |
| Do I take myself too seriously? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT? |
| Under stress, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| How can we as a family keep the closeness of the Christmas Season alive? HDIFAT? |
| Till death us part. HDIFAT? |
| Do I always try to give you my full attention when we make love? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt confused. HDIFAT? |
| What are some of the barriers to my forgiving you? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest gift I could give my people? HDIFAT? |
| How was Easter special for us this year? HDIFAT? |
| What do I do when I hear people gossiping? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever try to hide my true emotions / feelings from you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your involvement with work? |
| Do I ever use sex as a reward for good behavior? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a new situation comes up that conflicts with my plans? |
| HDIF about drinking champagne with you? |
| How well do I forgive me people when they ask for it? HDIFAT? |
| Why do I love you today? HDIFAT? |
| What good do I see in our children? HDIFAT? |
| Is our neighborhood safe? HDIFAT? |
| I love you because _____. HDIFAT? |
| How often do we pray as a family? HDIFAT? |
| Are we a romantic couple? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I said Thank You to you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I pray for love? HDIFAT? |
| Recently, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I tell you your hair looks great? |
| HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt embarrassed. HDIFAT? |
| When have I felt alone this spring? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to control our conversations, or let you control them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I win at cards? When you win? |
| HDIF when I realize I am not what you thought me to be? |
| What expectations do I have of you? Are they being met? HDIFAT? |
| God wants our sexual relationship to be good. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes? |
| What kind of parent do I want to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God having a stake in our marriage? |
| What part of the world are my ancestors from? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are too tired to respond to me? |
| HDIF about compromises? |
| When, recently, did I take the time to help someone in need? HDIFAT? |
| What am I working at believing about myself now? What makes it hard? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my involvement with work? |
| HDIF when I am around very important or powerful people? |
| HDIF when I am late and you have to wait for me? |
| HDIF about giving the children an allowance? |
| How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT? |
| How many hours do I watch TV in a typical day? In a typical week? HDIFAT? |
| What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: HDIF now about things I wish I had done or said differently? |
| What makes it difficult for me to write my dialog letter? HDIFAT? |
| Which of my physical features do I like best and least? HDIFAT? |
| Do I encourage others to see the beauty of God's creation? HDIFAT? |
| I feel most comfortable with you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I have poor self-worth? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about letting priests / pastors / nuns / ministers know their importance to us? |
| HDIF when other people say hello to me? |
| What was our closest moment as a family this year? HDIFAT? |
| This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAT? |
| How important are material things to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about today's meals? |
| Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT? |
| What in our marriage do I find it difficult to tolerate? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I ask you about our children? |
| Is my dialogue a real letter or does it just answer the question? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone outside our family? |
| HDIF when it is time to file income tax forms? |
| What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT? |
| How do we maintain passion and love in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever seek support when we are struggling? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you get upset? |
| What bad habit(s) would I like to give up? HDIFAT? |
| It is time to clean the yard. HDIFAT? |
| Do we keep a scrapbook of our marital memories? Why or why not? HDIFAT? |
| Describe my idea of a perfect romantic evening, start to finish. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think you are beating around the bush rather than giving me a straight answer? |
| Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of me to say _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| Do I give money or time willingly or grudgingly? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever been accused of something I did not do? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most need from you today? HDIFAT? |
| Can I expose my innermost sexuality to you? HDIFAT? |
| Does it take me a long time to get into action, or do I get into action quickly? HDIFAT? |
| How long before missing dialogue affects our communication and closeness? HDIFAT? |
| What does your touch mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to take things too lightly, or worry too much? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing today could be my last day to live? |
| Am I humble? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place? |
| How would I describe our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do something good for someone else? |
| HDIF when we do not talk after an argument? |
| Am I more likely to voice my discontent and disapproval, or do I hold my tongue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going shopping with you? |
| HDIF when I am traveling to new places? |
| What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT? |
| Is our relationship alive and well in the eyes of other people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I give my best to you or to others? HDIFAT? |
| What makes it hard for me to grant forgiveness? HDIFAT? |
| What gift can I give Jesus for Christmas this year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see pressure getting to you? |
| Has our sacrament been a visible sign to our family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people talk negatively about me? |
| What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about working many hours in a room with no windows? |
| HDIF when you compliment me in front of other people? |
| Have I ever felt guilty after performing a sex act? Be specific. HDIFAT? |
| How does my need for security prevent me from giving all of me to you? HDIFAT? |
| What was the nicest thing someone did for me this week? HDIFAT? |
| Do I really believe that God loves me where I am right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about taking a short trip with you? |
| At parties, am I often bored or do I usually have fun? HDIFAT? |
| What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on other people? HDIFAT? |
| What can I personally do to love someone who does not deserve to be loved? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAT? |
| What kitchen appliance am I most like? HDIFAT? |
| Do I want to go back to school? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever felt the power of the Holy Spirit? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I still nurturing a bad mood? HDIFAT? |
| How has God blessed me this year? HDIFAT? |
| How does my negative or positive self-image affect me being life-giving? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have my chair or my spot? HDIF when someone else sits there? |
| HDIF when I see our children respond to you? |
| Have I ever witnessed a miracle? HDIFAT? |
| How have I changed in ways that my people are unaware of? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever take my frustrations out on our children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about a walk in the moonlight with you? |
| HDIF about showing my love for you? |
| Where do I see myself 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF inviting couples like us into Encounter / Retrouvaille? |
| How can we create the atmosphere for intimacy in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I lose a cherished or prized possession? |
| HDIF about family prayer? |
| When am I most frustrated with you? HDIFAT? |
| What have I done to improve our relationship this month? HDIFAT? |
| How have our children been affecting our relationship lately? HDIFAT? |
| How are we growing closer or becoming more distant as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see our family together? |
| HDIF when I think about us ten years from now? |
| HDIF when I realize you are not coping effectively with stress? |
| Is it harder for me to adapt to a routine or to constant change? HDIFAT? |
| Am I doing enough of what makes me happy? HDIFAT? |
| If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I wait patiently when you are late? |
| Our children most need _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone misunderstands me? |
| What ghosts and skeletons do I need to deal with? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you go ahead and make love even when you do not want to? |
| Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How would I rate our communication skills? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I agree to do it your way? |
| What conditions do I put on my love for my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone tries to get my professional advice in a social setting? |
| What are the sources of my pain or frustration? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about a vacation alone with you? |
| Do we argue to win, or to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I decide to trust you with my emotions / feelings? |
| Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT? |
| What area of my communication with my people do I think I need to improve? HDIFAT? |
| What bad effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT? |
| Are we still striving for a deeper loving marriage, or have we stopped because we judge we have done enough? HDIFAT? |
| Are our problems too complicated or unusual for most people to understand? HDIFAT? |
| Do I give you more criticism or more praise or little of either? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see the first snow of the season? |
| Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF on those occasions when you discipline our children? |
| What motivated me to dialogue today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our bedroom? |
| What can we do to improve our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being with your parents? |
| HDIF when someone says I am a good person? |
| HDIF when I am moody? |
| When I am upset, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF before and after making a decision? |
| Do people tell you that you have an accent? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way things have been going lately? |
| What compliment do I most like to receive about me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I remember as the most romantic moment in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What struggles do I go through trying to write my dialogue letter? HDIFAT? |
| What emotions / feelings do I most like to share? HDIFAT? |
| Do I admit when I am wrong? HDIFAT? |
| Does a hobby keep us separated much of the time? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt miserable. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider that we are growing in mutual knowledge? |
| As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I must explain my actions? |
| What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about attending a graduation ceremony? |
| How am I pro-life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to respect authority and follow the rules? |
| HDIF when we eat by candlelight? |
| HDIF about our dialogue? |
| Which of life's pleasures do I cherish most? HDIFAT? |
| What makes you cry? HDIFAT? |
| Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT? |
| What perfume or cologne do you wear most often? HDIFAT? |
| What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when no one notices something I put a lot of work into? |
| What barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love you? HDIFAT? |
| When is the last time I truly felt listened to by you? HDIFAT? |
| Are you closer to God than I am? HDIFAT? |