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| Do I need to be easier on myself? HDIFAT? |
| When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about involving our children in an Easter tradition? |
| Where is our relationship headed? HDIFAT? |
| How can I help you when you are under pressure? HDIFAT? |
| Am I content in my circumstances? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF watching our parents grow older? |
| HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you? |
| HDIF when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it? |
| Am I growing or standing still right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone tries to get my professional advice in a social setting? |
| When I am upset, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDIFAT? |
| What is my plan to help you enjoy life on a daily basis? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people notice our togetherness? |
| Do I take time for recreation and play? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever flunked a class or big test? HDIFAT? |
| Have we been an example of a happily married couple this week? HDIFAT? |
| Are we best friends? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to be loving when you want to talk all night? |
| What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest joy in our marriage right now? HDIFAT? |
| Do I cry at weddings? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about watching football on TV? |
| How are we living God's plan and what can I do to improve it? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I nag you? |
| Do I measure myself by God's Standards, or the world's standards? HDIFAT? |
| What mask (personality style) do I find most difficult to remove in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Is my life organized, under-organized, or over-organized? HDIFAT? |
| What are the things that we have that money cannot buy? HDIFAT? |
| How often do I want to make love but do not ask you? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT? |
| What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT? |
| What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF taking time to get to know myself better? |
| I am in a life-long search for more _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we look at our wedding album? |
| If I could change any one thing about myself, I would change _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the activities our children are involved in? |
| How has our dialogue helped us grow closer to each other? HDIFAT? |
| What kinds of compliments have I received most often as an adult? HDIFAT? |
| Did I letter in a sport in high school or college? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being an American? |
| How involved am I in our parish or church family? HDIFAT? |
| One thing I missed during my childhood was _____. HDIFAT today? |
| HDIF when other couples think they do not need to dialogue? |
| Am I secure in the knowledge that God is present in my life even during my times of trouble? HDIFAT? |
| What is complicating my life? HDIFAT? |
| If I could take you any place, where would I take you? HDIFAT? |
| What are my hopes for us in the area of sex? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways am I seeking to love my wife as Christ loved the church? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: On the surface, am I logical or emotional? HDIFAT? |
| On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving you? HDIFAT? |
| When did I last feel alienated in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite time of day to make love? HDIFAT? |
| If I could get away with it, would I break the rules? HDIFAT? |
| Am I considerate of you in the little things? HDIFAT? |
| If I could be anyone from history, who would I be _____? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see as your strengths? HDIFAT? |
| When our calendar is empty, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| What can we do for the poor, the homeless and the lonely? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get behind on my sleep? |
| HDIF about the way our lovemaking affects my self-image? |
| HDIF about sharing the chores? |
| HDIF when I say I am sorry? |
| What is most appealing to me about being religious? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, how was I punished? HDIFAT? |
| When was a time when our love as a couple touched someone else's life? HDIFAT? |
| If I were a Christmas present, how would I be wrapped under the tree? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe I will die before my spouse? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up? |
| Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| Are compliments part of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFAT? |
| I know there is a good chance we will make love tonight. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I compare myself to _____? |
| What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe God created me? HDIFAT? |
| When things are not going well between us, what do I think about? HDIFAT? |
| What did I do today that I was proud of? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you respond to my requests on your own time? |
| Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT? |
| One of my heroes is _____. HDIFAT? |
| What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see myself handling my responsibilities for our family finances? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we make love with the lights on? |
| I would like people to think of me as _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we work on the family budget together? |
| Do we have a sense of superiority? HDIFAT? |
| In what specific way have I brightened your day today? HDIFAT? |
| Do I think I have grown more interesting? HDIFAT? |
| What did I do to make my parents proud of me? HDIFAT? |
| Do we let our light shine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I reach out to touch you? |
| HDIF when my parents come for dinner? |
| Do I choose sexual intercourse to meet my need to be loved? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I told you how special you are? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am being impolite or rude to other people? |
| Do we spend our spare time on our home rather than with each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about dialoguing on the Sunday scriptures? |
| What kind of criticism distresses me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about discussing sex with you? |
| HDIF at family gatherings? |
| How has our family benefited from our experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I cannot go to a function our child wants me to attend? |
| Do I expect you to read my mind? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT? |
| When am I most frustrated with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider my accomplishments? |
| What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about letting a relative drive our car? |
| What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT? |
| What love do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a couple accepts our invitation to experience the weekend? |
| What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love God better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about reaching out to other people today? |
| How can I tell when you are avoiding me? HDIFAT? |
| What was the last romantic thing I did for you? HDIFAT? |
| What is the luckiest thing that has ever happened to us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone thanks us? |
| Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Is there any pattern to our arguing? HDIFAT? |
| How well have I used the ingredients that God gave me today? HDIFAT? |
| How important are material things to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning to play a new sport? |
| What did I do to lift another person this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we need to take out a loan for a major purchase? |
| HDIF about the way we use our spare time? |
| What is the biggest flaw in my personality? HDIFAT? |
| Do I prefer casual clothes or dressing up? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sleeping late? |
| HDIF when I laugh with you? |
| Does my parish or church live within it's means? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when your job separates us overnight? |
| Am I a worrier? HDIFAT? |
| Do I want our children to follow my example of lived faith? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have a little church at home to help us stay on the program? HDIFAT? |
| It is morning and I just got up. HDIFAT? |
| What little things count in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I concentrate on your needs? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the love I bring to our family? |
| What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our children's friends? |
| What would I like most to change about our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are too tired for each other? |
| How do we usually handle conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when God allows you to suffer? |
| HDIF when someone rains on my parade? |
| Our sexual relationship is a mirror of our total relationship. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being in our sharing group? |
| Do I pride myself in hardly ever fighting with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving money to people who solicit on the street? |
| Can I forgive myself for my faults and mistakes, and then move on? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see my sexual values changing? HDIFAT? |
| What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel if someone in the family knew how to perform CPR? HDIFAT? |
| What makes it difficult for me to write my dialog letter? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite thing for us to do as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| If I had my life to start again, what would I change? HDIFAT? |
| Do I want a deeper relationship with God, or do I think it is deep enough? HDIFAT? |
| We have a meeting to attend and no baby-sitter. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF recalling my first communion? |
| HDIF about being affectionate in front of the kids? |
| HDIF when my plans for the day are disrupted? |
| HDIF about writing thank-you notes? |
| HDIF when I look back at things I have done? |
| HDIF when I see the first snow of the season? |
| What quality in us as a family do I like best? HDIFAT? |
| Sometimes I do not take the time to say I love you. HDIFAT? |
| If I am not junk, then what am I? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my self-worth as your lover? |
| Describe a time when I felt hung-over. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am late and you have to wait for me? |
| HDIF about our recent vacation? |
| Have I ever felt used or rejected in sex? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to dump on me? |
| Do I vote in every election? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your attitudes about sex? |
| Under stress, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| How have I let myself down? HDIFAT? |
| Am I sensitive enough to you when your needs differ from mine? HDIFAT? |
| Is our sexual relationship separate from the rest of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in my life, HDIF about my past? |
| I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I take advantage of opportunities to have a good time? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have for our sexual relationship, and are they getting in the way? HDIFAT? |
| How does my self-image keep me from being open to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when my gift of help, time, friendship, etc is refused? |
| HDIF when I see couples we know working on their relationships? |
| Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDIFAT? |
| Am I closed to listening to you on certain topics? HDIFAT? |
| When do I most need your support? HDIFAT? |
| What did I accomplish today? HDIFAT? |
| Do I judge myself through the eyes of my people? HDIFAT? |
| I know I would never find another you. HDIFAT? |
| What one quality do I look for most in a friend? HDIFAT? |
| No matter how often I am right, I will sometimes be dead wrong. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you show interest in your job, career or housework? |
| Today we had the opportunity to make our relationship stronger. Did we? HDIFAT? |
| Are we still striving for a deeper loving marriage, or have we stopped because we judge we have done enough? HDIFAT? |
| What part of the day do I usually like the best? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF sharing the holidays with you? |
| HDIF about one of our children being called to religion life? |
| In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs? |
| Do I look for the beauty in everything around me? HDIFAT? |
| How does our stuff compare to our neighbor's stuff? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I watch you undress? |
| What potentials have you helped me develop? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive each other? |
| After a fight: Am I able to see your side? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment? |
| How do my childhood dreams of growing up compare to what I am now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt? |
| When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have a chance to learn about art, culture and history? |
| This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT? |
| Which one of us worries more about money? HDIFAT? |
| How does striving to live God's plan give life to us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| How often do I pray? HDIFAT? |
| What do I remember most about our wedding day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you try to influence my decisions? |
| In what ways do I punish myself because of past mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| What is your best quality? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT? |
| How can our kisses be more meaningful? HDIFAT? |
| When I withdraw into my shell, HDIF? |
| What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: How can I change to make confrontation more positive for us? HDIFAT? |
| What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I awake on Christmas morning? |
| HDIF when friends offer to help? |
| After a fight: Did I deliberately hurt you? HDIFAT? |
| How have I given up control in our relationship lately? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people tell me I look tired or depressed? |
| Is the money mine, ours, or yours? HDIFAT? |
| Do we still sit next to each other? HDIFAT? |
| What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself? |
| How do we handle anger in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever sent you flowers for no special reason? HDIFAT? |
| How does our financial situation affect our intimacy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, Why do you never listen to me? |
| HDIF conversing one-on-one versus conversing in a small group? |
| HDIF when I introduce you to people at work? |
| HDIF when I say good-bye to you at the airport? |
| HDIF about the scandals in the church? |
| What needs of yours do I see me being able to help with? HDIFAT? |
| Do I like for people to drop in on us? HDIF when it happens? |
| What would you most like me to change? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the holidays this year? |
| Did experiencing the weekend lead to a new beginning for us? HDIFAT? |
| The last person I was angry at was _____. HDIFAT? |
| Can we listen better to each other? HDIFAT? |
| What tempts me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we have to work together to help others experience the weekend? |
| Do I serve God with my heart or with my head only? HDIFAT? |
| What miracle did I experience today? HDIFAT? |
| Are our sacrifices meaningful or just a requirement for Lent? HDIFAT? |
| My greatest distraction while listening to you is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your father? |
| I think you misunderstand me in this area: _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF hearing God's words, I will never forget you? |
| Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT? |
| As a family, what does the birth of Christ signify to us? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I show my love to you? HDIFAT? |
| When I pray, do I listen? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get an answering machine instead of a live person? |
| HDIF when things go wrong at home? |
| HDIF about shopping for furniture? |
| What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our dialogue reflections are similar? |
| HDIF when you call me just to say you love me? |
| You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT? |
| How does our relationship with God affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe children should be seen and not heard? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my father? |
| HDIF at a large party? |
| HDIF about giving my two best friends a key to the house? |
| What do we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT? |
| How do I respond to working under pressure? HDIFAT? |
| When I look at you today, do I see you as my bride / groom? HDIFAT? |
| If somebody does not treat me right, am I likely to forget or remember? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about this Christmas? |
| Hurt is an inevitable part of a close relationship. HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt stubborn. HDIFAT? |
| In what area do I need to risk sharing more with my people? HDIFAT? |
| What experience has most affected our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to change the world? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of our relationship am I experiencing loneliness? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend? |
| HDIF when our family trust level has been broken? |
| HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures? |
| How well do I listen to my people when they talk about death? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF confessing my sins aloud? |
| Do I search for the best buy, or buy what is available first? HDIFAT? |
| If Jesus came to our house for a 24 hour visit, how would I feel? |
| HDIF about hiring help with childcare? |
| What do I expect from you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I measure my happiness in what I have, or what I enjoy? HDIFAT? |
| When I am at a party, HDIF about helping to get things going? |
| Do I ever keep quiet because I think talking will get me into trouble? |
| What are my people's best qualities? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? HDIFAT? |
| What miracle, small or large, did I experience today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when it has been a long time since we made love? |
| Sometimes failure makes me want to try harder. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship? |
| Our children are tempted by alcohol, drugs, sexuality. HDIFAT? |
| Are we keeping our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT? |
| What can my people do to help me understand them better? HDIFAT? |
| What values of mine differ from my people's? HDIFAT? |
| Was there a time, in the past week, when I felt joy in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being a year older each birthday? |
| What is the wildest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT? |
| When have I felt the most loved this year? HDIFAT? |
| How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people with bad manners? |
| What habit do I struggle to break? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do you make most of the decisions? HDIFAT? |
| Is it more important to see possibilities or adjust to facts? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my prayer life? |
| What is the best help you can give me when I am discouraged? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us moving? |
| HDIF when you accept my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth? |
| Do people tell you that you have an accent? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: When did I feel most exasperated? What was that emotion / feeling like? |
| What do I like best and least about us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT? |
| What would be the ideal place and time for us to make love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF dealing with imaginative people versus dealing with realistic people? |
| How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT? |
| Would I rather leave the big decisions to others? HDIFAT? |
| When I am being open to you, I am also being open to God. HDIFAT? |
| When did I last put your needs before mine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being more playful during sex? |
| HDIF when I have to put other people's needs ahead of my own? |
| What do I usually do about things that hurt me? HDIFAT? |
| Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the self-discipline to fulfill the responsibilities I have taken on? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think of praying with you? |
| HDIF when I cope successfully with a stress-filled situation? |
| HDIF when I watch the sunrise with you? |
| How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT? |
| Why did I take my vows? Why do I keep my vows? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult emotion / feeling I have shared with you recently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF reading your favorite book? |
| HDIF when I consider spending Christmas without you? |
| If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT? |
| What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| How important is financial security to me? HDIFAT? |
| What dreams do I have for this year? Are they realistic? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having breakfast in bed with you? |
| What kind of parent do I want to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about renting one of my favorite movies for us to watch? |
| HDIF about planning a vacation? |
| How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my neighbors? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about you staying home with the children and being a homemaker? |
| HDIF about how well I show my love for you? |
| How do you respond to my failures? HDIFAT? |
| I have a dream. HDIF when other people are skeptical? |
| HDIF when I see you cry? |
| How do I respond to my people's failures? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see our dialogue has changed our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have make love often enough? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the right mix of contemplation and action in my life? HDIFAT? |
| How does my mask (personality style) affect our purchases? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about eternity? |
| HDIF when I hear from other people that you have bragged about me? |
| HDIF about having company stay with us? |
| What can we do to improve our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being asked to volunteer, as opposed to volunteering on my own? |
| Do we reserve time for lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about the statement, open to you, open to God? HDIFAT? |
| Have we drawn closer, or drawn apart this week? HDIFAT? |
| We had hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you working too many hours? |
| Did we plan to have a date with each other this month? Why or why not? HDIFAT? |
| Does how I spend my time reflect the priorities and values I think I believe? HDIFAT? |
| Do I like our home the way it is? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever say no to lovemaking when I know I should say yes? HDIFAT? |
| What do I hope for next summer, how does that affect our family and HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your promotion potential? |
| HDIF when we go to visit our families? |
| HDIF when I have to be the one to discipline our children? |
| What special joy or pleasure do you bring into my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I put away the laundry? |
| How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have unmet needs that lead me to be a married single? HDIFAT? |
| What do I pray for? HDIFAT? |
| How do I deal with injustices? HDIFAT? |
| Do I thank God for my life every day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing that today could be our last day together? |
| What is the greatest healing device I can offer you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about compromises? |
| HDIF when we have to be away from each other for an extended period? |
| Did I do everything today as if it would make a difference? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children make demands? |
| What expectations do I have of you? HDIFAT? |
| How would I like to spend our vacation? HDIFAT? |
| What makes it hard for me to grant forgiveness? HDIFAT? |
| What has been the hardest experience of my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize you are not all I thought you were? |
| Is there anything troubling me right now? HDIFAT? |
| Do I always try to give you my full attention when we make love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get a surprise note or phone call from you? |
| How can I change things to give you more time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about dining out or having a picnic together? |
| How do I behave so that others will accept me? HDIFAT? |
| What goals have I set for myself this year? HDIFAT? |
| The Bible is full of God's dialogue letters to us. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF asking you to make love? |
| When am I most likely to ignore my people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I help you up when you fall? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What specifically triggered my reaction? HDIFAT? |
| What would I choose as the time and circumstances of my death? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think that you are judging me? |
| Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT? |
| Right now, what do I need most: love, belonging, self-worth, or autonomy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the ways I try to show you that you are special? |
| HDIF knowing we have experienced God through each other? |
| HDIF about encouraging our older children to take a part-time job? |
| HDIF while I am saying mass, giving a service, etc.? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more concerned with my outer or inner appearance? HDIFAT? |
| When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our current level of involvement with our extended families? |
| HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes? |
| This week, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when walls build up between us? |
| How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our marriage reflected God's love in our world today? |
| Are my sexual needs being met? HDIFAT? |
| How can we improve our spiritual life as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| How do I hurt myself by judging others? HDIFAT? |
| What stage of love do I think we are in: romance, disillusionment, misery, revival, or joy? HDIFAT? |
| What difference does the Eucharistic celebration make in my life? HDIFAT? |
| God often allows our hearts to be broken so that He can beautify our soul. HDIFAT? |
| Am I willing to give up my dreams to make my people's dreams come true? HDIFAT? |
| To what degree am I living what Encounter / Retrouvaille teaches us? HDIFAT? |
| What mask (personality style) am I wearing when I am avoiding you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the expectations your family has of us? |
| HDIF about sending and receiving cards? |
| HDIF about the weather? |
| Do I close my eyes to my people's faults? HDIFAT? |
| The driving force behind my life is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to control conversations with my people, or let them control them? HDIFAT? |
| What talent or quality as a parent do I most envy in you and HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about taking responsibility for my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF when I ask your forgiveness? |
| How do we make our sacrament a visible sign of God's love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear myself say things my mother or father said? |
| HDIF after we dialogue? |
| HDIF when we are aware of using our forgiving power to heal each other? |
| Dialogue can be a daily date. HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to make myself more available to my people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I strive to become better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you sincerely compliment me? |
| HDIF being around people who show no flexibility? |
| What are your family's expectations of us? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to make you smile more? HDIFAT? |
| What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas of our relationship am I still private because I do not trust you to understand? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I want to postpone our dialogue? |
| Three people who admire me are _____. HDIFAT? |
| My favorite time of day is _____. HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: How can we benefit from this situation? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I look for help when I find I am in over my head? HDIFAT? |
| What can we do to keep our marriage alive and growing? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am shopping with you? |
| HDIF when I realize we cannot give our children the best of everything? |
| HDIF about the need for priests / ministers? |
| HDIF about us when we have saved to buy something special? |
| We need new clothes. HDIFAT? |
| How do I measure up when I am given power? HDIFAT? |
| How do I think we got together? Accident, fate or God? HDIFAT? |
| When God made me, what were His dreams for me? HDIFAT? |
| This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT? |
| Do I feel good about myself when I am with you? HDIFAT? |
| How am I different since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you? |
| HDIF when I undress in front of you? |
| HDIF about _____, my favorite cousin? |
| How do I see our relationship in the light of SIR 26:1-4, 13-16? HDIFAT? |
| How does my parents' marriage affect my behavior toward you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe that love takes time? HDIFAT? |
| Do I use others as an excuse? HDIFAT? |
| What have I learned from looking backwards at our history that can enrich our future relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about spending time with my family? |
| Am I a good mixer or am I usually quiet and reserved? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about taking on a ministry as a couple? |
| What grudges do I hold? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us? |
| I need to know you are telling me the truth about _____. HDIFAT? |
| Here is my description of the ideal mother: _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone asks me for something and remembers to say please? |
| HDIF when I am naked in front of you? |
| What thing or activity would it be difficult for me to give up and why? HDIFAT? |