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| What difficulties are we most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever been in a car wreck? HDIFAT? |
| At meetings I feel _____. |
| HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven? |
| What is the best thing that happened to me today? HDIFAT? |
| What power do I hold over my people that may be a barrier to me growing closer to them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the freshness in our marriage? |
| Do I search for my people's faults like there is a bounty offered? HDIFAT? |
| Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am talked into something I do not want to do? |
| Am I loud on blame and soft on praise, or the other way around? HDIFAT? |
| Am I superstitious? HDIFAT? |
| In what specific ways am I hopeful for our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have deep friendships with a few, or broad friendships with many? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of compliment makes me feel good? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up? |
| Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear about someone who has been abused? |
| How would I feel if someone in the family knew how to perform CPR? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our child's college plans? |
| Is my yes to you today unconditional? HDIFAT? |
| Do I go to church to give or to get? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about payday? |
| Do I agree with the statement that folks are better off married? HDIFAT? |
| How are we behaving like married singles? HDIFAT? |
| When you feel threatened, I feel _____. |
| Do I have enough excitement in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we discuss finances? |
| Do I try to see things from your point of view? HDIFAT? |
| Do I express my emotions / feelings spontaneously? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think of Our Father as always belonging to us? |
| Am I discovering more about me because of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to start a project over again? |
| What can I do to show our couple love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the telephone rings in the middle of the night? |
| Is Jesus Lord of our prayer life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are traveling in bad weather? |
| What have I learned about my people recently that surprised me? HDIFAT? |
| Am I choosing the direction of my life, or is my life directing me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to do housework? |
| What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAT? |
| What talent or quality of yours have I discovered in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| HDIF when I think about my current spirituality? |
| When things piled up on me the worst, I felt _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I experience growth in our sexual relationship? |
| Do we share our joys with others, and spread the good news, or do we celebrate alone? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most depend upon you for? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF on a date with you? |
| When was I lonely without you this week? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have a plan for what to do with my time after I retire? HDIFAT? |
| How have I experienced forgiveness in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to break a promise because it conflicts with something even more important? |
| How have I let myself down? HDIFAT? |
| Did I make Jesus part of my life today? HDIFAT? |
| Am I too inhibited to act silly or stupid? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to help me understand God better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs? |
| After a fight: Is there any pattern to our arguing? HDIFAT? |
| What are my hopes for our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you cry? |
| HDIF about encouraging our children to participate in sports? |
| HDIF about my life staying like this? |
| What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT? |
| Can I see God in you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF does just being married mean to me? |
| Have there been happy moments I should have enjoyed more? HDIFAT? |
| I really wish I had started _____ earlier in life. HDIFAT? |
| My top priorities in life are _____. HDIFAT? |
| What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love God better? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see Jesus alive in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about myself when I do well? |
| When something bad happens to me, do I let it hurt our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| We are a sacrament. What does this mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| How does my poor self-image affect our couple prayer? HDIFAT? |
| Am I really number one with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently? |
| HDIF when you make me your favorite person? |
| HDIF when we talk about my openness to change? |
| What was our first year of marriage like? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize my priorities are inconsistent with my actions? |
| HDIF when I see our children laugh? |
| As a child, did I have an imaginary friend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think of all those who helped us get our marriage back on track? |
| Do I look for self-worth in possessions or activities? HDIFAT? |
| What has dialogue taught you about yourself? HDIFAT? |
| Am I patient enough with my people? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, was I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I return from acting like a married single? |
| HDIF about my sacrifices to make the family meal enjoyable? |
| Do I have relatives I should invite to experience the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves? |
| HDIF about reminding a friend to return something borrowed long ago? |
| Do I romance you the way I want it or the way you want it? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of store would I like to own and operate? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever apologize to you after I have been rude? HDIFAT? |
| Do I laugh frequently or rarely? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see us together in photographs? |
| Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have any plans for having fun together this week? HDIFAT? |
| What is my fondest memory of last year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when waiting in line at a crowded restaurant? |
| How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIFAT? |
| Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What do I think was your main point? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see the house in a mess? |
| Do I sometimes write something different from what I feel in order to protect you or myself? HDIFAT? |
| What helps me learn the most about my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me? |
| HDIF about our involvement with work? |
| HDIF when we reach out to other people as a couple? |
| What do I do when I hear people gossiping? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever keep quiet because I think I have nothing worthwhile to say? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our Encounter / Retrouvaille jobs keep us from being close? |
| Do we have fun together? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are in each other's arms after we make love? |
| HDIF about hugging you in public? |
| Are we faced in the right direction? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about myself today? Does that affect how I feel about you? |
| HDIF when you ask me to make love to you? |
| What regrets do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT? |
| What am I doing to promote Christian unity right where I am? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something? |
| Am I content with what I have? HDIFAT? |
| Do I praise the good I see in others? HDIFAT? |
| How do I fare when I try to put myself in someone else's shoes? HDIFAT? |
| When I seek advice, am I really seeking what is best for me, or to get support for what I wanted all along? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am an object of someone's joke or ridicule? |
| HDIF when I receive a gift? |
| What is it about our charism of permanence that calls other people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about _____, my favorite uncle? |
| HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no? |
| HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner? |
| What talent or quality do I wish I had that I do not? HDIFAT? |
| If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIFAT? |
| What lifetime dream am I still trying to realize? HDIFAT? |
| Does my love for my people make a difference in our community? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about this Christmas compared with past ones? |
| HDIF when we are holding hands? |
| HDIF when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in? |
| HDIF when you express a need for more leisure time? |
| Am I satisfied with our relationship as it is? If so, should I be? If not, why? HDIFAT? |
| Am I open to your non-verbal communication? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I allow circumstances to overtake me, making a decision for me? |
| HDIF when you have a strong interest that I cannot share? |
| HDIF being committed to dialoguing regularly as a way of life? |
| HDIF about selecting dialogue questions that appear difficult? |
| HDIF about our Christmas tree traditions? |
| HDIF when I propose a new sexual experience? |
| HDIF about the level of responsibility I have at work? |
| HDIF about having relatives over for the holidays? |
| Can I name three values we both share? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are on a trip and have a breakdown or flat tire? |
| I feel best about myself when I am _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I get along with my parents? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive a card from you in the mail? |
| What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? HDIFAT? |
| How do I respond to disappointment? HDIFAT? |
| Take and eat, this is my body. HDIFAT? |
| What is the meaning of Christmas to me? HDIFAT? |
| What is it like to feel sexual anticipation? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about buying a convertible for us to enjoy together? |
| If I were in a Circus Act, I would be _____. HDIFAT? |
| What are the values I want to live now? HDIFAT? |
| What blocks to listening are in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe prayer changes things? HDIFAT? |
| How do I react to practical jokes? HDIFAT? |
| Do I feel safe sharing my weaknesses as well as strengths with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God being the one who brought us together? |
| How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not being met? HDIFAT? |
| What compliments have I received lately that I did not fully accept? HDIFAT? |
| What kitchen appliance am I most like? HDIFAT? |
| When did I first realize I loved you? HDIFAT? |
| What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDIFAT? |
| What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you do something special for another couple? |
| If I could change one and only one thing about the world, I would change _____. HDIFAT? |
| What are my best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT? |
| I think my people's strengths are _____. HDIFAT? |
| Are we meeting our children's needs? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am digging up the past? |
| Jesus says, Come unto me all you who are weary. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are in mass or church together? |
| HDIF when I am get useful unsolicited advice from others? |
| HDIF about holding hands in public? |
| The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT? |
| Does my conduct agree with my convictions? What does this say about the strength of my convictions? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving massages? |
| HDIF when we are too tired to be lovers? |
| Do I need you to help me appreciate my good qualities? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the attitude, Do not start something you cannot finish, and how does that affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What opportunity did I have today to erase one of my failures? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up? |
| Today we had the opportunity to make our relationship stronger. Did we? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to control your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF seeing animals in the zoo? |
| HDIF when I discover the assumptions I made about you are not true? |
| HDIF about the way we celebrate Easter? |
| What has dialogue taught me about myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the first day we met? |
| HDIF knowing my emotions / feelings express who I am? |
| How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT? |
| Did we have a rocky start? HDIFAT? |
| How can we share our Encounter / Retrouvaille experiences with non-Christians? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we have a large number of people over? |
| What is my greatest hurt in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I spend time alone when I need to be alone? HDIFAT? |
| How are we responding to our Lord's call to unconditional love in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the sport of hunting? |
| Do I look forward to heaven? HDIFAT? |
| You bring out and make me see my self-worth. HDIFAT? |
| Do I have unmet needs that lead me to be a married single? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our love affair with life? |
| HDIF when we exchange gifts? |
| HDIF when our family trust level has been broken? |
| Persons with strong values will eventually have strong conflicts. HDIFAT? |
| When I am among new people, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I earn my salary? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you seem to be holding something back from me? |
| How can we improve our non-verbal communication as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| Jesus will never give us more conflict than we can manage. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing my dreams with you? |
| HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant? |
| HDIF about Natural Family Planning? |
| Do I ever put others down to feel better about myself? HDIFAT? |
| Do I think life is fair? HDIFAT? |
| Are my expectations about our lovemaking being met? HDIFAT? |
| I make many of my decisions by _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time? |
| Do I talk to myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it? |
| What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| What emotion / feeling did I have today that I most want to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about funerals? |
| HDIF when I think people are looking at me, sizing me up? |
| Do I really believe that we as a couple are important to the Church? HDIFAT? |
| Who are some couples that I see Christ's love in? HDIFAT? |
| Am I often preoccupied when listening to other people? HDIFAT? |
| What keeps me from being more completely honest in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT? |
| Do I make it a point to thank people who do something for me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever get so involved with my projects that I neglect other people? HDIFAT? |
| When at a party, do we act like married singles? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning new things? |
| Am I more careful about people's feelings or people's rights? HDIFAT? |
| When you bring up a topic for discussion, HDIF? |
| Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are patient with me? |
| What is my greatest talent in listening to you? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt lonely. HDIFAT? |
| When am I most likely to lie to you? HDIFAT? |
| In an important conversation, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| Has this been a good year or not? HDIFAT? |
| What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIFAT? |
| Did I feel special growing up as a child? Looking back, HDIFAT? |
| Do I place limits on our sexual relationship? How? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the charismatic style of prayer? |
| Are we in denial about anything? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the demands people place on me? |
| HDIF about planning a weekly family outing? |
| HDIF about yard work? |
| HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it? |
| HDIF when I have written my dialogue letter but you have not? |
| Do I believe we should share household tasks? HDIFAT? |
| In our same-faith marriage, how close are we in celebrating our one faith? HDIFAT? |
| What do I need to thank my people for that I have not? HDIFAT? |
| Which of the beatitudes do I find it easiest and which hardest to live? HDIFAT? |
| What is my biggest challenge right now? HDIFAT? |
| When do I feel closest to all of you and HDIFAT? |
| What are my expectations of you in the area of sex? HDIFAT? |
| What nice thing have I noticed about you this week and have not told you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people do not return things that they borrow from me? |
| What would I like to do now, so I will not regret not doing it twenty years from now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our child is sick? |
| HDIF when you are sick at an inconvenient time? |
| HDIF when I want to share something with you but do not? |
| HDIF about honoring the dead? |
| HDIF about my volunteer work? |
| HDIF about the influence of my mother in my life? |
| HDIF about my current state of health? |
| Today, I am most thankful for _____. HDIFAT? |
| When was my need for self-worth met this week? HDIFAT? |
| Did Sunday meet my expectations? HDIFAT? |
| In order to learn to give, I also need to learn to receive. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I build a wall between us? |
| HDIF when we work together to get a tough job done in a short time? |
| What do I like about being alone? HDIFAT? |
| What do my deeds say about me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I need to win in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about appearing on stage in a play or other performance? |
| Your needs are in conflict with mine. HDIFAT? |
| Were my Valentine's Day expectations met? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider how the household chores are divided up? |
| What is the best practical joke that was pulled on me? HDIFAT? |
| Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when there is silence between us? |
| Do we waste food or any other scarce resource? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF showing affection in front of our children? |
| HDIF when I am organized? When I am not organized? |
| Is it easier for me to overcome my enemies or overcome my desires? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are aware of using our forgiving power to heal each other? |
| What probably not tonight signals do I use to say no to sex? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT? |
| How can I reduce the level of stress in my life? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have many shared interests? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about praying before dialogue? |
| When I am hurt, I react by _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever change what I write or say to gain your approval? HDIFAT? |
| Considering my upbringing, what should I avoid with our children? HDIFAT? |
| How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you? |
| HDIF when I see our couple love influencing other people around us? |
| What are the things that bring me closer to God? HDIFAT? |
| What is my greatest fear about my death? HDIFAT? |
| Am I independent enough? HDIFAT? |
| Do I hear and keep the word of God? HDIFAT? |
| What is the biggest confidence you give to me? HDIFAT? |
| Am I willing to work hard to make my relationship with God a success? HDIFAT? |
| Is there anything I need to share with you but have not? HDIFAT? |
| What do I want our priorities as a couple to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend? |
| HDIF about tithing the first part of my wages to the Lord? |
| You keep growing more beautiful each day. HDIFAT? |
| Am I cheerful enough for my own good, mental and physical? HDIFAT? |
| Am I holding onto any resentment, bitterness or anger toward my mother? HDIFAT? |
| How much of me will I have to give up to make the marriage work? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way? |
| HDIF when you come home in the evening? |
| What sacrifices am I making for my family now? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel if I made some new friends this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF (God forbid) about living the rest of my life without you? |
| How often do I want to make love but do not ask you? HDIFAT? |
| When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT? |
| Am I being sexually responsive to your needs? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am the underdog? |
| Does my humility bring me closer to God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving a month's worth of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do not trust you with my emotions / feelings? |
| Do I sing in the shower? HDIFAT? |
| Is Jesus in control of my prayer life? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever feel manipulated by you? What is this emotion / feeling like? |
| HDIF about my service to God? |
| HDIF when our daily routines do not allow us time for each other? |
| How do I feel about going back to school? |
| Am I patient enough with you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I experience God's love in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| In our relationship, have I lately become more open or more guarded? HDIFAT? |
| If I were a Christmas present, how would I be wrapped under the tree? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What is my favorite weapon when I do not fight fair with you? HDIFAT? |
| Of those whom I have loved and lost, whom do I miss the most? HDIFAT? |
| What comfort do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT? |
| Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I flash you a smile? |
| HDIF about driving inexpensive cars? |
| HDIF knowing that God needs us? |
| Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT? |
| What have I learned from looking backwards at our history that can enrich our future relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am unable to control my temper? |
| HDIF about being alone? |
| HDIF about our family activities? |
| HDIF when you come home unexpectedly? |
| What unfinished projects would I like finish? HDIFAT? |
| Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAT? |
| How was Easter special for us this year? HDIFAT? |
| What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| What, specifically, do I need to do this weekend for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about watching TV? |
| Where would I like to have a summer home? HDIFAT? |
| How do I usually deal with conflict in my relationships? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself a good joke teller? HDIFAT? |
| Am I good at keeping secrets? HDIFAT? |
| What hopes do I have for the coming weekend? HDIFAT? |
| Do I tend to dwell on the past? HDIFAT? |
| What changes would I like you to make in response to my failures? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT? |
| When I want to retreat from our relationship, what do I do? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most need from you when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT? |
| What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on our children? HDIFAT? |
| Do I sense God's presence in our relationship when we make love? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever take unfair advantage of our love? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest challenge we face as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our closeness when we dialogue on Scripture? |
| What are the things that I / we have that money cannot buy? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever take unfair advantage of our love? HDIFAT? |
| What evidence do you have in your life that regular dialogue is important? HDIFAT? |
| What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT? |
| How do we express our love for each other? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see you as a giving person? HDIFAT? |
| What gifts or talents am I embarrassed to share? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself a hawk or a dove? HDIFAT? |
| Am I comfortable letting other people know my limitations? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my family name, my family tree, my relatives, my ancestors? |
| What is the most exciting thing that ever happened to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women? |
| HDIF when you sing me a love song? |
| How critical am I to my workplace? HDIFAT? |
| What do I really like about myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you tell me you love me? |
| Do I see death as a beginning of a greater love relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the car behind me follows too close? |
| Do I know when to be silent? HDIFAT? |
| Am I still growing and learning? HDIFAT? |
| How did the absence of dialogue affect our communication and closeness? HDIFAT? |
| How has our dialogue helped us grow closer to each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have something important to say, and my mind goes blank? |
| Describe a time when I felt bashful. HDIFAT? |
| What are my thoughts when we pray together? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am alone? |
| Ruth 1:16-17. HDIF about us as I reflect on these words? |
| HDIF about my career now? |
| How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a different person over the phone? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when discussing our sex life? |
| What was the best present I can remember getting? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I brought Christ's love to the world? HDIFAT? |
| Life is beautiful when I can share it with you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having a costume party? |
| Do I live the values I profess, or do I say one thing but do another? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about deadlines in general? |
| Am I inhibited about sex? HDIFAT? |
| Do I learn from my failures? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I cannot relax at home? |
| HDIF about our fertility? |
| What effect does my not listening have on our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What are my thoughts when we should ask for help with our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt proud. HDIFAT? |
| How well do I listen to my people when they talk about family? HDIFAT? |
| Are our daily conversations meaningful? HDIFAT? |
| What are my people's best qualities? HDIFAT? |
| How can we best share our love with other people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I fear God? HDIFAT? |
| You cannot hold on to another person out of fear of loss. HDIFAT? |
| What kind of Christmas present did I give you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am the first to say hello? |
| Which one of our friends am I most comfortable with? HDIFAT? |
| Why have we not been dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT? |
| Do I worry that this romance stuff is expensive, and we cannot afford it? HDIFAT? |
| Is describing my emotions / feelings in a letter easy or hard to do? HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave when things suddenly go against me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you put a love note on the bathroom mirror? |
| When was the last time we held hands in public? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT? |
| What is the role I see myself and you living out in our sexual experience? HDIFAT? |
| Do I feel abused or threatened in our relationship? What is this emotion / feeling like? |
| HDIF when I have to make a difficult phone call? |
| HDIF when we hear our song? |
| Do I trust in the Lord enough to step out of the boat? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think of how our children are turning out? |
| Do I want your help in discovering what my real needs are? HDIFAT? |
| What are my resolutions for this year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about getting other people's advice for solving our problems? |
| HDIF when you shut me off? |
| How do you help me up when I fall down? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we do not have time for each other? |
| What is my favorite love song? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What pitfalls keep our fighting from being constructive? HDIFAT? |
| My top priorities in life should be _____. HDIFAT? |
| How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT? |
| What do I hope for next summer, HDIFAT? |
| I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Is our family being short-changed by our Encounter / Retrouvaille involvement? HDIFAT? |
| What is my most treasured memory? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you call during the day just to say hello? |
| HDIF about attending mass or church on Sunday? |
| Do I value sentiment more than logic or vice versa? HDIFAT? |
| Do we make love enough or not enough? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am too tired to sleep? |
| HDIF about family failures? |
| HDIF when I / we are in a hurry to leave, and _____ stops by? |
| Is frustration bringing us together or driving us apart? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after we have had a long laugh together? Does laughter help heal? |
| HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV? |
| What changes do I need to make in my behavior to grow closer to you? HDIFAT? |
| Was my parent's relationship a healthy or unhealthy model for us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment? |
| HDIF hugging our son or daughter after I have disciplined them? |
| What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF laughing with you? |
| You are worth more than you are paid. HDIFAT? |
| What one thing has most united us this past weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when making things with my hands? |
| HDIF about dialoguing on death? |
| HDIF about inviting another couple to dialogue with us regularly? |
| Do I keep short accounts, or do I let things build up over time? HDIFAT? |
| Does a recreational activity keep us separated much of the time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my relationship with my family? |
| Am I more likely to look for the easiest way, or the right way? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDIFAT? |
| Is dialogue a chore or a special time for us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about using dialogue to get in touch with myself? |
| If I had tons of money, what would I give you for Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT? |