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| Where do we most need to grow in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you leave things up to me? |
| HDIF about keeping my promises? |
| HDIF about sending a poor child to summer camp? |
| After a fight: When did I refuse to listen or ignore what was said? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try something different? |
| What good quality do you see in me that I doubt the most? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our Christmas tree traditions? |
| HDIF about contributing five percent of our income to charity? |
| How do I fail to listen to you when I am disillusioned? HDIFAT? |
| I am attracted to people who _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we go out socially? |
| I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty admitting it to you. HDIFAT? |
| In which direction are we heading? HDIFAT? |
| When other people expect a lot from me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| Now that the children have moved out, is the end of the family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we use the good silver (or the good china)? |
| What am I most disappointed with in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What have I had to compromise to be with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about belonging to our universal church? |
| HDIF about the last time I did something romantic for you? |
| What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| What is our special character as a family? HDIFAT? |
| How is our relationship affected when we strive to love unconditionally? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am being obsessive? |
| HDIF when work keeps us apart? |
| Am I satisfied with myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about other couples supporting us? |
| HDIF about our relationship staying like this? |
| Do I worry about keeping my job? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about choosing something new over something familiar? |
| HDIF when you suggest a change? |
| HDIF when we go to see your mother / father in the hospital? |
| HDIF when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me? |
| What other obstacles do I let get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT? |
| What motivated me to dialogue today? HDIFAT? |
| Our marriage is a sign of Christ's Love. How do I think others experienced our sign today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way we make our money? |
| Is passion an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I prefer casual clothes or dressing up? HDIFAT? |
| What does being a couple mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| I need to learn not to _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I get enough sleep? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you working too many hours? |
| God is my dialogue partner. HDIFAT? |
| If I had tons of money, what would I give you for Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the coming Holidays? HDIFAT? |
| Am I responsible for our current financial situation? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way Christmas Day went for us? |
| HDIF when I build a wall between us? |
| Am I strong enough to admit to you when I make a mistake? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about letting other couples help us when we are hurting? |
| Are we talkers or non-talkers? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe you taking everything too personally? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you do something good or kind for someone else? |
| HDIF about my education in music and art? |
| Whom do I admire that is not so good an example? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see us as being connected to our family, to life? HDIFAT? |
| Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT? |
| Do my moods ever interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our family spends money? |
| HDIF about Lent? |
| HDIF about Christ being born in our relationship? |
| How well do I think I do at recognizing and trying to nourish my needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think you have let other people down? |
| HDIF after I donate a pint of blood? |
| What is your specialness to me today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I find a love note from you? |
| What is my most pleasant memory from our dating days? HDIFAT? |
| Do I deny my mistakes, or do I learn from them? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, my best friend was _____. HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Did I pout or cry just so you would feel sorry for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when friends invite us but do not come over in return? |
| Why do I want snow at Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| Ruth 1:16-17. HDIF about us as I reflect on these words? |
| When do I get the most out of talking about us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing my emotions / feelings from the past? |
| What limits my ability to love my people? HDIFAT? |
| I admire people who _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about celebrating Thanksgiving with the hungry or homeless or lonely? |
| How do I behave when I think I can do a job better than someone else can? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about paying the bills? |
| When was the last time we brought Christ's love to the world? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF showing affection in front of our children? |
| The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT? |
| What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAT? |
| In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a good mixer or am I usually quiet and reserved? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when illness strikes close to home? |
| Is our openness about our masculinity / femininity reflected in our children? HDIFAT? |
| When I hear the Lord's call, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our children dress? |
| Our Lord calls us to love each other unconditionally. HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite sexual fantasy? Would I like it fulfilled? HDIFAT? |
| Are we never going to agree about some issues? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am with good friends? |
| Are we counting our years together, or making our years together count? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the car behind honks at me when I do not react fast enough to the green light? |
| What inhibits me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What do I want for you this weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone catches me in a lie? |
| When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our prayer life. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am proud to be with you? |
| HDIF when I engage in self-pity? |
| When were we closest this month? HDIFAT? |
| In what area do I need to risk sharing more with God? HDIFAT? |
| When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I take my hurts to God, or just keep them to myself? HDIFAT? |
| Do I make the effort to be a friend to others? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see Jesus in you? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel discovering that you are hurting right now? HDIFAT? |
| Do I talk to myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when work keeps us apart? |
| What do I need from you as a family to help me? HDIFAT? |
| Is family communication a value of mine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way I handle money? |
| HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you? |
| How specifically can we as a couple / priest be salt and light? HDIFAT? |
| What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our first house or apartment? |
| Do I need to be more connected with the people in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my fringe benefits? |
| We are not Sacrament without passion. HDIFAT? |
| With myself, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do something that I think pleases God? |
| Where would I like to be next year at this time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to you? |
| What potentials have you helped me develop? HDIFAT? |
| How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I derive happiness from doing a good day's work? HDIFAT? |
| What flower do you remind me of? HDIFAT? |
| What have I learned from looking backwards at our history that can enrich our future relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Is Mass a celebration for me? HDIFAT? |
| Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other couples think they do not need to dialogue? |
| What is my fondest memory of our courtship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you? |
| Am I needed by you sexually? HDIFAT? |
| When do I nail down the lid on my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| What is my greatest talent in listening to you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I being sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF having a one-to-one conversation with someone I barely know? |
| Am I willing to reach out to my people when things get to be too much for me to handle? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I give you the benefit of the doubt? |
| Am I cheerful enough for my own good, mental and physical? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I did a Random Act of Kindness (RAK) for you? HDIFAT? |
| These things support and reinforce me: _____. HDIFAT? |
| I believe I have failed as _____. HDIFAT? |
| What give me the most sexual fulfillment? HDIFAT? |
| Life is beautiful when I can share it with you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment? |
| HDIF when I reach out to touch you? |
| HDIF about having to do work that does not harmonize with my values? |
| What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about making a list of our important documents and where we keep them? |
| HDIF hugging our son or daughter after I have disciplined them? |
| What have I learned about my people recently that surprised me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I donate blood on a regular basis? HDIFAT? |
| What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about this day? |
| HDIF after I have spent a sleepless night? |
| Do I prefer costume jewelry or the real thing? HDIFAT? |
| These are my needs that still go unmet: _____. HDIFAT? |
| What prevents me from asking questions about something I need to know or should know? HDIFAT? |
| What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT? |
| We are a sign - what do people see when they see our love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the decision to love being important to us? |
| HDIF when I am under pressure? |
| If we were given ten thousand dollars cash, what would I want to do with it? HDIFAT? |
| What evidence do I have in my life that dialogue is important? HDIFAT? |
| Sometimes I do not take the time to say I love you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I stand at attention during the national anthem? |
| What type of program do I watch most on TV? What does this say about me? HDIFAT? |
| Sometimes we argue over the children. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am caught by off-guard? |
| HDIF about the way we resolve conflicts in our relationship? |
| How do you set me free? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are near, but cannot be with each other for several hours? |
| What would I like you to do for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you laugh at my jokes? |
| HDIF about the way we celebrated our love on this special occasion? |
| HDIF about this past workweek? |
| Was dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT? |
| Do I live what I believe, or is my private life different from my public life? HDIFAT? |
| What would I choose as the time and circumstances of my death? HDIFAT? |
| Do I pray for circumstances to change, or for the grace to handle circumstances? HDIFAT? |
| Do I expect us to be involved in mutual activities? HDIFAT? |
| What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I know that I have hurt you? |
| HDIF when I am aware of growth in us? |
| Does Lent remind me of our Encounter / Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What beauty do I see in my people? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel if our TV were to break and stay broken? HDIFAT? |
| What was the most meaningful experience that I had today? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever had to tell a cashier I was short of cash? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I bring you a pillow? |
| In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am asked to love, to give, or to forgive but will receive nothing in return? |
| HDIF when I discover the assumptions I made about you are not true? |
| What frustration did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT? |
| How have I experienced forgiveness in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| I enjoy my relationship with people the most when _____. HDIFAT? |
| When is the last time I truly felt listened to by you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the honesty of our dialogue? |
| HDIF about this Christmas? |
| What can I do to contribute to our family having a good time on vacation? HDIFAT? |
| Our calendar is filled. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see our children respond to you? |
| After a fight: Am I still surprised by your reactions? HDIFAT? |
| What are my hopes for us in the area of sex? HDIFAT? |
| If I could change one thing about myself, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about switching to low fat milk? Using less salt? Eating less red meat? |
| HDIF about our contributions to our community? |
| Do I love the world or the things of the world? (I JN 2:15) |
| HDIF when I take a walk with you? |
| HDIF when you screw up my plans? |
| Do I place limits on the relationships I have with my people? What? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel working under someone who is always fair but not so kind? HDIFAT? |
| Is Jesus Lord of our future? HDIFAT? |
| It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to be punctual or late? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think you are beating around the bush rather than giving me a straight answer? |
| Who are my children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being a newlywed? Or HDIF remembering our first few years of marriage? |
| Is it more important to see possibilities or adjust to facts? HDIFAT? |
| God made you a part of my life. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we stick to our budget? |
| HDIF when I am delayed because other people are not punctual? |
| Do I have close friends I should invite to experience the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| If I could start over again, what would I change? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our children going back to school when fall comes? |
| What do I think about our couple spirituality? HDIFAT? |
| Do I wish to deepen the experience of God in our relationship? If so, how? HDIFAT? |
| Am I too inhibited to act silly or stupid? HDIFAT? |
| Do I let you reveal yourself? HDIFAT? |
| I smiled today when I thought about _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I reflect more on present blessings or on my past misfortunes? HDIFAT? |
| What has been the most painful experience in our family this past week and HDIFAT? |
| A couple I would like to see experience the weekend is _____. HDIF about inviting them? |
| Do I choose sexual intercourse to meet my need to be loved? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our financial status after the holidays? |
| HDIF when I try to be loving when you want to talk all night? |
| Am I spending my time on what I value the most? HDIFAT? |
| Lately, do I fall asleep easily or do I have trouble falling asleep? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when my creative juices are flowing? |
| HDIF about being out of shape? |
| HDIF relying on hunches or intuition when things cannot be proved? |
| We tend to compete against each other in _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we have unexpected company? |
| Do we talk about our lovemaking enough? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people try to flatter me? |
| Beside yours, what friendship has meant the most to me this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we read our letters and then cannot think of much to say? |
| HDIF when I make a mistake and you point it out? |
| How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT? |
| When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in our lives, HDIF about our past failings as a couple? |
| HDIF when you do not say anything? |
| What did I not try because I was afraid of failing? HDIFAT? |
| What was the greatest change from our wedding day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our marriage influences other people? |
| Describe a time when I felt perplexed. HDIFAT? |
| Which three qualities do I require in a friend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you show interest in your job, career or housework? |
| HDIF when I feel the least romantic? |
| Does my true self come out under stress? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I know I have hurt you? |
| When I look back over the holidays, what was the greatest gift I received? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our having some time alone, away from each other? |
| What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love my people better? HDIFAT? |
| What am I doing to promote Christian unity right where I am? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I sense Christ present among us? |
| Do I get along with my parents? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I made a conscious decision to love you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are sick? |
| What is the greatest healing device I can offer you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you? |
| What do I like to do for pleasure? HDIFAT? |
| What is my strongest emotion / feeling about money? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite memory of us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are not in the mood, but I am? |
| HDIF when we are torn between our families? |
| What is it about death that frightens me the most? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about watching a love story on TV or at the movies? |
| HDIF about giving from our substance? |
| My first reaction to hearing a new idea is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Where do I look most for approval, inside or outside? HDIFAT? |
| How does my attitude toward my mother affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT? |
| When you withdraw into your shell, HDIF? |
| After a fight: What was I feeling when I was silent? |
| HDIF when I consider spending Christmas without you? |
| In what ways do I avoid being intimate with you? HDIFAT? |
| When do I feel pressured by you? HDIFAT? |
| I have seniority at work. HDIFAT? |
| The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT? |
| Does a recreational activity keep us separated much of the time? HDIFAT? |
| What barriers or attitudes keep me from sharing with you my unmet needs? HDIFAT? |
| Do not worry about your life and what you are to eat or wear. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I let disagreement ride just to keep the peace? |
| HDIF when someone rejects me or does not love me? |
| Do I want a deeper relationship with my people, or do I think it is deep enough? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our son being a priest / pastor? |
| I must be true to _____. Can I be true to this and still be with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to say, I was wrong? |
| HDIF about cooking dinner together? |
| What am I most disappointed with in myself? HDIFAT? |
| How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about receiving massages? |
| HDIF when I borrow something and keep it too long? |
| Whose day did I brighten with a smile today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking? |
| Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT? |
| Do I present myself as caring more than I really do? HDIFAT? |
| The person, place, or thing I miss the most is _____. HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we really got silly together? HDIFAT? |
| Is control a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I put more than the average amount of effort into my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| What could you do to increase my sexual anticipation? HDIFAT? |
| I have a dream. HDIF when other people are skeptical? |
| HDIF about the stake we have in other people's marriages? |
| Do we have a little church at home to help us stay on the program? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our trying to de-clutter our home? |
| As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT? |
| A successful marriage requires falling in love many times with the same person. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am an object of someone's joke or ridicule? |
| Do I use alcohol or drugs to relax or alleviate pressure? HDIFAT? |
| What has dialogue taught me about myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the first day we met? |
| Describe a time when I felt surprised. HDIFAT? |
| What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about planting a vegetable garden? |
| Am I a person of healthy suspicions, likely to question how things are? HDIFAT? |
| In the area of death, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What is an attitude I had about sex entering marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What is my attitude toward my work? HDIFAT? |
| When we make love, I feel _____. |
| What is special about us as a couple today? HDIFAT? |
| Do I listen to our children, not just to their problems, but their day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when TV sports controls meals and holidays in our home? |
| After a fight: What was the worst fight we ever had? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have enough time to accomplish my goals? HDIFAT? |
| What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT? |
| What do I miss most when we are on vacation? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do? |
| Am I able to watch someone else make a mistake without commenting? HDIFAT? |
| What happens to me when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do I share my blessings joyfully? HDIFAT? |
| We have the ability to forgive each other. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when my people say no to God? |
| HDIF about my self-image? |
| HDIF when I witness a marriage? |
| HDIF when you are annoyed with me? |
| Are you trying too hard to change me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see myself as a temple of the Holy Spirit? HDIFAT? |
| When we hold hands, what are we saying to each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do my selfish desires create obstacles in my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| What visions and hopes do I have for my people? HDIFAT? |
| What are my expectations in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever keep quiet because I do not know how to express my thoughts and feelings? HDIFAT? |
| What steps can we take to make our impossible dream a reality? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a casual person or a serious person? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our children's education in music and art? |
| As a parent, could you do better? HDIFAT? |
| What positive actions will I take to change a pressure into a blessing? HDIFAT? |
| What memory of our courting days is most alive today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about gathering other people for prayer? |
| HDIF when I see our family together? |
| HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion? |
| Do we ever let material things interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever been accused of something I did not do? HDIFAT? |
| What emotions / feelings have I kept hidden from you lately? HDIFAT? |
| What are my hopes and dreams for our children concerning prayer? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I invite you to go bike riding with me? |
| Do I have a tendency to think in terms of worst-case scenarios? HDIFAT? |
| Do I trust God as much today as I did yesterday? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are hungry for sex? |
| HDIF hearing God's words, I will never forget you? |
| Do I ever have trouble controlling my temper? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my state of health? Do I take it for granted? |
| Do we avoid a particular member of our parish or church community? HDIFAT? |
| What do I long for in the depths of my being? HDIFAT? |
| Do I enjoy being seen nude by you? HDIFAT? |
| What fears do I have about our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| Are we keeping our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I acted like a little kid? HDIFAT? |
| What have I always wanted to try but never did? HDIFAT? |
| What message am I sending others on how I want to be treated? HDIFAT? |
| What would I like to try doing that is different from anything else I have ever done? HDIFAT? |
| Do we share our faith in each other? HDIFAT? |
| What part do I play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT? |
| What are my thoughts when we should ask for help with our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| What quality of Jesus did I see in our priest / pastor today? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel receiving a friendship card from you? |
| HDIF about involving our children in a Lenten tradition? |
| In what areas do I fail to practice what I preach? HDIFAT? |
| Do I follow or lead in our couple prayer? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when summer is approaching? |
| What is my most recent happy memory of us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about dying to self? |
| In what specific ways am I hopeful for Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT? |
| Do my selfish desires create obstacles in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I still nurturing a bad mood? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I cannot go to a function our child wants me to attend? |
| HDIF when we spend a quiet evening together? |
| Love is patient, love is kind. How does this apply to our family? HDIFAT? |
| How has the atmosphere in our home changed because of our growth? HDIFAT? |
| Do I thank my children when they do something for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF as I reflect on the expectations I had on our wedding day for us? |
| What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we made love spontaneously? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about World Marriage Day? |
| HDIF about my job now? |
| Is it important to me that money not be important to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about _____, my favorite aunt? |
| HDIF toward you when we have to make a decision together? |
| What keeps us from dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| When I get pressure from you, do I tend to become more withdrawn or more aggressive? HDIFAT? |
| How has our dialogue helped us grow closer to each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we miss mass or church? |
| Do I put my independence above my trust in you? HDIFAT? |
| What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I trust you less? HDIFAT? |
| What am I most thankful for? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive communion? |
| HDIF when I give you an unexpected gift? |
| HDIF when your job separates us overnight? |
| How do I handle conflict? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about tithing a portion of our income? |
| HDIF being around people who brag about themselves? |
| Am I willing to ask for forgiveness when I need to? HDIFAT? |
| If we had twice our present income, would be happier? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your having to work overtime? |
| How do I try to hide my faults? HDIFAT? |
| Do I worry about hair loss? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents? |
| Romance is a decision. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone in our family? |
| HDIF when I see you behaving tenderly with our children? |
| HDIF about dining out? |
| How do I see our weaknesses as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What little thing did I enjoy today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about Operation Rescue? |
| How do we express our love for each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do I always have to learn by making my own mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| What favorite weapon do I use when I do not fight fair? HDIFAT? |
| What nice thing have I noticed about you this week and have not told you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you massage my head? |
| HDIF when we plan a romantic evening together? |
| What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIFAT? |
| Can I entertain others by telling jokes and stories? HDIFAT? |
| What special qualities do I most admire in you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing? |
| In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT? |
| I see God smiling down on us as we make love. HDIFAT? |
| Does love mean you never have to say you are sorry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we invite a couple to experience the weekend and they accept? |
| Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities today? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see my relationship with Our Father as a private one? HDIFAT? |
| Is my life organized, under-organized, or over-organized? HDIFAT? |
| Do my personal goals conflict with the goals of my people? HDIFAT? |
| There is sibling rivalry in our home. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am away from my people? |
| Why do I love you today? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe it is important to be on time? HDIFAT? |
| What was our closest moment as a couple this month? HDIFAT? |
| Our Sacrament calls us to a good marriage, not just an average one. HDIFAT? |
| When I say, I love you, is it more of a habit or do I mean it? HDIFAT? |
| What have I done to show Christ my love for Him? HDIFAT? |
| Why do (did) I choose to be baptized? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you make a special effort to make me feel important? |
| Do I want to fit in or stand out? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our preparations as Christmas approaches? |
| HDIF when I receive a card from you in the mail? |
| What teachers of mine would I like to honor? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when talk about our favorite memories? |
| HDIF about asking you out and planning the entire date myself, including making the reservations? |
| How do I behave when my need for belonging is not being met? HDIFAT? |
| How are we going to make better use of our free time this summer? HDIFAT? |
| How are we active in our parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| What outfit do I like best on you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we plan a vacation? |
| HDIF about supporting our Encounter / Retrouvaille community? |
| After a fight: When are we most likely to fight? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about becoming holy by being your lover? |
| Am I suffering any disillusionment in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself to be vengeful? HDIFAT? |
| What little dreams do I keep in my heart? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to work in a group? |
| When we do a job together I feel _____. |
| HDIF when we heal each other in dialogue? |
| HDIF about looking the person in the eye when I say, I am sorry? |
| What is the meaning of Christmas to me? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT? |